She says that people 14 and under shouldn't have bfs and stuff. me and my bf just got back together and when i told her, she rolled her eyes and gave me a long speech and acted like i was an idiot. do you think it's wrong for an eigth grader who is 14 to have a boyfriend? I have known my bf for four years and I know he is trustworthy and I love him to death and he loves me too. What should I do???? I want to keep my friend but I also want to keep my bf!!!!
2007-02-12 00:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What???
Sorry, But I believe that young people can love just as much as old people. It’s just a different kind of love.
How do you grow if you are never planted?
As for your friend, she might feel left out of your friendship. It’s always nice to gain more friends than lose them. Your BF will have to understand that she is your friend also and to be nice to her.
If she doesn’t want to be with both of you, then that is her loss… Still make time for her, Friends at your age that last a lifetime are the most special and valued. But not if it takes too much work on one or the others side.
2007-02-12 01:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a father of four and no I don't think it is wrong.You have to be able to see if you are able to handle relationships in life,just don't let this get to serious.You will meet lots of boys so don't let your boy friend get to close,neither of you want to get hurt.I used to tell my mother when I was young that being 15 and having a GF was not wrong.I would remind her that she was married and expecting a child by 19.Also my Grandma was married with 2 babies at 17.Just be careful,and have fun.
2007-02-12 00:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by one10soldier 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is right
at 14 you have no idea what love is and there is much more to being a bf/gf then that
enjoy you friend and you um bf you will grow out of him but friends are always there
as you grow up you will find you will have lots of bf's and not so many true friends
2007-02-12 00:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weel hun thats a dificult one, no there is nothing wrong with havin a boyfriend at your age. do you think she might feel a bit left out and maybe this is why she is being like this. maybe you should set some time aside 4 her. BUT if she is a real friend she will stick by you anyway shouldnt she?
2007-02-12 00:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by nuttytart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
thats not a very good friend then;
she should accept you for who you are.
but you are to young to fall in love.
im 13 and have a bf. i love him. but im not falling in love.
have fun....
2007-02-12 00:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by .suicide notes+butterfly kisses. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't use the word "love" in the eighth grade.
2007-02-12 00:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is right you are to young, if it last forever thats great but it won't..
2007-02-12 00:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is she jealous ?
2007-02-12 00:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't accept you; she's not your friend.
remember that.
2007-02-12 00:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk
2007-02-12 00:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by t_empire2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋