My gf & I have been dating for 2 ½ years.Last week she told me she was unhappy w/our relationship.She said that we come from 2 diff.paths; she doesn’t know if she can be with my family, & she has to push me to do everything.She looks at everything I have done in the past as a negative.I just went back to school after 6 years, & to her that’s a neg.She came from a home where she very rarely had to pay for anything, dated ppl who had $ & class.Her mom would make comments about ex’s while I was at the house, about them having class & how wonderful they were.It seems like b/c I’m not as classy & have $, she has doubts.She doesn’t seem to see that there is no telling what the future holds.Last week she hung out w/an old guy friend from hs w/o me.she needed space, she told me what they did.On sat.I called her when I was coming back home.When I got ½ way home I needed gas, gas by my home is $.15 higher then where she lives.On the way I got really sick & called her to see if I could use her bathroom she said ok when I got there I noticed that the guy she hung out w/& her friend were both there & she was mad at me.I have always been there for her when she was sick, to the point of taking off of work.What’s going on?
2007-02-12 00:23:18 · 5 answers · asked by James S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want to be with someone who seems to care so much about money? Most problems in a relationship are centered around finances. If I were you, I'd count this as a blessing and find a girl who isn't so materialistic. Sorry to sound harsh, just my opinion.
2007-02-12 00:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's pretty simple really!
She's not a very nice person.
You have to get yourt head round the idea that you are worth more than that and that you cannot change her. As much as you would like to?
Do you really want to put up with this for the rest of your life? Do you think you deserve a nice girlfriend instead?
Lots of people will agree with me. You deserve better. And you can do better!
2007-02-12 00:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkgemgem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to end the relationship. if she can't learn to value you for you, then she needs to be kicked down a notch. she shouldn't treat you like that. you obviously care for her, and she just sounds like a snob. she can't look at the good things that you have done and that's her problem. no one deserves someone like that
2007-02-12 00:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a nice guy, i would get out and move on. otherwise she is going to hurt you. Sounds like to me that she just want to "play"
2007-02-12 00:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish the posh b i t c h
2007-02-12 00:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Geezer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋