...he keeps trying to convinceme that we should stay together.I have so much stress...Im trying to get a degree but im not really focused...its just insane...I dont want to stay in this relationship,b/c of his jelouse ways..the fact that he tries to control my life....keeps telling me I dont like his family...I dont see myself giving my future kids his last name! Ijust dont click with his family...He keeps reassuriung me that we should stay in our relatioship everytime I want to leave...im not happy...I care alot about him and he does aswell....but thats not enough....I am asking myself what was the point of getting engaged...we still act like bf and gf...when we spend the night together..he's on the computer ..not paying any mind to me.....My unhappiness causes me to take out my anger on others....what should I do??
2007-02-12 00:09:41 · 5 answers · asked by Jessie006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well dont leave him. Marriage and realtionship takes work. If your willing to work at it, then you will be fine! Your engaged, okay. Then dont get married for a while, until after your degree. But dont just leave him because of school. You care for him. Limit your time to see him, if you need more focusing time! I cant believe you told him you would marry him, if you werent telling the truth! Shame on you.
Getting along with his family will come along in time.
2007-02-12 00:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance is not really listening to your needs. You're telling him in many ways that you want to end this relationship, maybe temporarily or for good. It seems to me that you feel really tied up to this relationship and you don't know how to end it because you are afraid of hurting your finace's feelings. You even said you can't imagine a future with him. I think this says a LOT, you should be separate from each other for at least one month, time will tell..
2007-02-12 08:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by indie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your engaged to be married, then you need to revert to the previous dating stage and tell him that in no uncertain terms. That will give you time. You need time to work this out. Start dating other men again as soon as possible. If he complains, tell him you are no longer engaged to him and wish to resume dating other men. Don't let him dominate your time. Install an answering machine, and only call him back once every couple of days at most.
2007-02-12 08:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what matters is that you are happy. if you think that it's the end of the relationship, and that you absolutely do not want to marry him, then as much as it hurts you should go by your feeling. i know it's hard, but you'll both move on.
2007-02-12 08:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave..................
2007-02-12 08:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by mdlbldrmatt135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋