i met a gal 2 weeks bac, we have been regurlaly chating on the phone. i have not been able to meet with her coz of my commitments and had to prospone our date couple of times. now to my shock yesterday i saw her with another bloke at restuarant. i only saw them hugging nicely and enjoying their meal they so much seemed to be involved.she did not see me. few hours ago when called and "enquired" if it was her that i saw she said yes, and she asked why i didnot come over and say hi,i said i wasn't sure it was her. do u think i should further ran after her? i am a bit turnoff!
2007-02-12 00:09:21 · 11 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have nothing to worry about its probably one of her guy friends or maybe even a relative seriously if she wanted you to come say hi you obviously mean alot to her... keep it going with her you might regret it if you don't
2007-02-12 00:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by harriette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sir,
Did you ask her if she was on a date?
Could she have been with a step brother or another family member? A cousin perhaps?
Were you brave enough to ask that question?
Are you that quick to give up just like that?
Are you that much of the jealous type?
Perhaps then she is NOT the ladie for you then..
Or that you are not a fighter and you are just not worthy of the warmth of the comfort that of which a true woman can offer...
you decide.
2007-02-12 08:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well you have postponed the date a couple of times, so she may think you are not so interested. Also, that other bloke could be her brother or her guy friend, whom she may be just friendly with, that's all. I think you should still try her. She was not afraid to show you to that guy, which is a good sign.
2007-02-12 08:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit immature - how old are you? You don't own this chick. You postponed your dates with her. She has a life and it sounds like she is living it. Who said a girl can't date more than one guy at a time? Get real, grow up, and if you think you might have a connection with this girl, stop postponing and take her out on a date. But....don't chase anyone.
2007-02-12 23:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt sound like she has anything to hide, so why not give her the benefit of the doubt.It could be totally innocent and the other guy could be a friend, relative etc.So id find out for sure first before jumping to the wrong conclusion.Good luck.
2007-02-12 08:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would at least find out who this guy is before you jump to any conclusions. Go on a date with her and ask about him.
There are several possiblities, you could have slipped into the "just friends" zone or this person could have been a relative or a close friend. Its better to find out.
good luck
2007-02-12 08:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on, she probably WAS interested in you but you cancelled on her and made her feel like you wern't serious so she moved on... now you should move on but still be on good terms with her like give her a call now and then, you 2 may want to spark something up in the future but even if you don't you can have her as a friend and she can introduce you to her ladyfriends... good luck buddy
2007-02-12 08:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st off you should have chanced your arm & went over to see if it was her & sadi hi, hope you're having a nice time.
Since you cancelled her it's her choice who she sees.It's not like you're together yet, is it?
If you love a girl, i mean really love her.Of course, she's worth the chase. It's what love's all about!!
2007-02-12 23:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has she done wrong?
It was a meal with a male friend right?
She isn't officially going out with you, so she can date, go to lunch/dinner with who ever she pleases
If you like her, still consider dating her...
2007-02-12 08:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has a point. why didn't you go over and say hi? why shouldn't she have dinner with another guy especially if you cancelled the date. besides it could have been just a friend. stop beng paranoid
2007-02-12 08:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by elsie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋