A once good friend of mine has been kind of ignoring me. About 2 weeks ago, I caught the bus after work and I saw him from a distance before he got on, but I was too shy, so I looked down on the map I was reading. He was wearing sunglasses, which intimidated me cause I couldn't see his eyes. Despite me sitting in his favorite seat, he chose to sit down in an empty seat near the front. At the next bus stop, our common friend got on the bus. I greeted the friend, and the friend looked at me and him, and looked puzzled, as if to say, how come you two aren't sitting together? The common friend sat next to him, which made sense, as they both normally catch the bus (whereas I normally drive). So surely by then he knew I was on the bus. Well, the common friend got off about mid-way of my whole half-hour journey. I didn't go to sit next to him because I had a stranger next to me, and also he already ignored me. Even by the time I got off the bus, we never talked. Is he trying to brush me off?
2007-02-11 23:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have not forgotten about his birthday, and I have not done or said anything that may have been hurtful. In short, I have been a very good friend to him.
2007-02-12 00:01:05 · update #1
seems like somethings going on, maybe something has happened that has made him feel weird about you.... or maybe he feels weird b/c he likes you =) or maybe he heard some bad rumour about you... or he could just be being a guy and was completely oblivious that day, or he could think that you are ignoring him =0 it could be almost anything!
my advice just be yourself and ask him about it or if you can't do that ask your mutual friends what's up... you won't find out without doing some investigating =)
2007-02-11 23:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ignored him! You could have easily said hello to him also, so don't blame him. You obviously sat in his favorite seat for a reason so you should have spoken to him or got up and sat with him. Sometimes the girl has to show some effort also. We guys get confused by your actions sometimes. I think you need to be willing to do some of the work if you are interested in him. Next time, act surprised to see him, start a conversation and get on the bus & sit together. Playing games will get you nowhere.
2007-02-12 07:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he could be trying to brush u off... but there might be some other explanations for this... maybe he has some problems, or maybe he was expecting u to greet him first, or maybe he was also thinking the same thing as u were right now... why dun u find out? just go to him and talk like a normal friend would... but if his response is not really good, maybe u should be honest with him and ask him what is wrong with him, or maybe what is wrong with u, or anything that's been bothering u... anyway, being honest is the best way to solve problems... good luck!
2007-02-12 07:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may as well ask him what's going on you have nothing to lose
maybe he has a crush on you and thinks you should have noticed?
or maybe you did something that hurt him like forgot his birthday or said something that upset him?
2007-02-12 07:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still interested him...then why don't you go and ask him..? why and what? or if he say negative... then 4 get him 4 ever... clear your mind...for a fresh start...g/luck.
2007-02-12 07:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋