and up on 5 months i am suposed to get diploma but i can't concentrate on my studies i want her to be with me but this is imposiible , help me what to do to continue my studies
2007-02-11 23:30:17 · 10 answers · asked by m&m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I understand you, my friend, but you need to be more patient. Try to talk to your wife as much as you can and tell her how much you love her. Tell her that you are missing her much and explain to her that 5 months will pass fast and you both will be together again.
You know that it is and will be very important to all of you when you graduate, because it will help you to build a solid life to you, to her and your future children.
So my dear, be patient and ask GOD to give you strength to concentrate and to continue your studies.
Listen my dear, you love your wife very much, then think and concentrate your mind to continue your studies and I can assure you that when you graduate, you will feel more happy and blessed because you got to fulfill your dreams and you are ready to start a new life with your wife, knowing that you are capable of give your family a secure and a lovable life. And you will not feel regrets or guilt anyone because you gave up to finish your studies.
FIVE MONTHS WILL PASS FAST AND YOU AND YOUR WIFE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN. HAVE FAITH!
I will be here praying for you. Blessings in your life.
2007-02-12 00:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay and finish you only have a few months left and if you quit now you wont go back....I would just call her often send her things when you can. She has stood by you for this long I dont think that she will be bothered by a few more months...I can some what understand what you are going through I have 4 children and my husband is a over the road driver and he is always gone and it is hard to deal with at times...I would like to wish you the best of luck with what you decide to do.
2007-02-12 01:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with your studies, you don't want to have gone through all this time apart and come out the other end with nothing to show for it, it wouldn't have been worth it.
get your diploma and then you will have something to show for your time apart.
when you miss her talk on the phone, text, email, webcam, and for the odd weekend go and visit - if it isn't too far. remember she loves you, and she is your wife. she will support you no matter what.
i wish you the best of luck.
maria X
2007-02-12 00:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by frost7216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you get to talk to her at least once a day and see her if you can a few times. She want's you to continue...let that be known, and if you quit on a count of missing her she'd be full of guilt. You are SO close, finish your degree then go be with your wife forever. Good luck!
2007-02-11 23:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember you only have 5 months left
its a day to day issue mark the calender down starting today so you know exactly how many days you have left
also remember you will be a better person to take care of you if you finish then letting it go
trust me i went back to collage at an older age and i regretted it after i left for just a few credits for my BS
you can do it i know its hard
also talk to her let her know how you are feeling this will also help get your mind clear
2007-02-11 23:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you mate. Stick it out for your diploma. Talk to her lots and send her romantic things through the post. go to http://www.lovingyou.com and steal some ideas to use on her so she knows how much u love her.
2007-02-11 23:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by matthewinuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she were given marreid, and that means that she is lengthy previous to a distinct guy! if u love her enable pass of ur thots, its killing u each day, and as time passes, its getting higher! its in ur palms, if u 4get her u will be able to proceed with ur existence, u have a destiny, and no individual will replace U, u ought to artwork flat out and locate this yet another lady to open up a nbrand new web page, u will be loose, as well as she, if she knew that ur laid low with that, she will be able to be devestated too, so my propose is to save ur chin up, and function a clean existence! u receives via this and am efficient, u can do it. all my regards.
2016-11-27 03:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor u!I understand u very well cause I have the same situation!U have just to wait ,cause if love is real,then it never will dissapoint u.U have to be confident in your wife,if she loves u then she will be waiting fir u!believe in your self!
2007-02-11 23:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by hot_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to finish your diploma cause if you leave you will probably never finish it.
Are there any other options? can she move closer to you? can you do your course via corrispondance/distance education? can you transfer to another uni?
Good Luck...
Bonnie
2007-02-11 23:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand :(
it's so HARD. :'(
tell me about it.
2007-02-12 00:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋