is it bcoz They can't stand criticism???????
2007-02-11 23:06:03 · 17 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually,
I know more men that were virgins who married their first love. Just because a guy goes around saying he’s not… He just might be….. Guys tend to call other men queer or gay if they haven’t “MADE” it.
And if they AREN’T a virgin? A known fact is that men mainly show love and affection by physical intercourse because they were unable to show emotional feelings outwardly.
Virginity is over rated. Just be careful out there, to many STDs.
A guy just wants a woman to “sparkle” when she looks at him. You women know the feeling….
What’s this with criticism? Have you done it so many times that you like it “JUST A CERTAIN WAY?
If you are with a guy that is right for you then no matter how much he has or hasn’t… No matter how fast or slow he is…. Should please you… That’s why people should GROW together. Try new things, Heck, you don’t eat the same meal every night do you, but you always eat with the same person? Why stick with the same routine in bed. Giving him steak everyday is fine. Just grill it one night and fry it the next.
Sounds like you just need a change of condiments ……………………………
2007-02-11 23:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi cutie. Criticism might be part of the deal for some guys. Still, it seems to me that there is potentially less insecurity felt by the guy or the girl, and therefore a possibility for more open communication about preferences and tweaks.
As to why men want to marry virgins...
Hmm, here's a good analogy. Say a girl has a quarter slice of a watermelon. She lets one guy take a couple of bites. Then she passes it to the next guy who takes a few big chomps. Then she meets the man of her dreams. They are wildly in love, and he cannot even conceive of some other man ever going near her watermelon. To him, her watermelon is a symbol of her femininity and he is going guard and protect it the rest of his life. He's earned access to her precious watermelon through merit. He goes to take a bite of it, but the whole front edge is gone, so it isn't really his and his alone, it is his for now.
When he looks at it, there is no way he can take a bite of her watermelon without putting his lips where one of the others guys slobbered off a bite.
Picture a guy choosing from either a girl with a whole quarter watermelon that she is keeping for her husband or some girl with a bit of watermelon left. With the girl with the whole quarter watermelon, the guy is going to have to be pretty special to earn his way to it (and guys like challenges), and the guy that earns it will know his girl can fight temptation outside the marriage, whereas more sexually adventurous females would have a higher risk of adultery.
Last but not least, picture a fresh quarter watermelon someone saved just for you, next to an almost all gone quarter watermelon that was leftover from a party. Which would you rather eat? Think about how the first bites of the fresh one test amazing, but with the leftover quarter, the fruit pieces are too close to the outside, so it doesn't taste nearly as good.
Same idea.
Hope this helps.
2007-02-12 07:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
criticism from whom. bear in mind that a virgin is also a risk. some guy can come along, ask her a few questions and based on results can try and convnce her that he can ofer something new and different. So the criticism part does not really work cause men can also be virgins and they can criticise too.
2007-02-12 07:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by guineous 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually i wouldnt wanna marry a virgin...they suck in bed lmao....id rather have a woman that i can have fun with...not all guys want virgins...men and women both like takin each others virginities away from one another but after that they're no different then u and me ;)
2007-02-12 07:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by ry h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thrill of being first. The closeness of being first. The first guy I was with is now my husband and we have a special bond because of it.
2007-02-12 07:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there is no chance of getting a disease in their mind, and also it is the thought for them that no one has ever had this woman but them before.
2007-02-12 07:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by cristin1970 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's because they know they saved themselves for marraige. Old fashioned values and less likely to stray.
2007-02-12 07:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably enjoy the feeling of knowing their new wife is theirs and only theirs and hasnt been anyone elses...
Quite frankly, i think its blatantley hypocritical....because even though their wife is a virgin...they probably arent.
2007-02-12 07:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by littleminnie1000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they want something no one else has had! They want the cherry to still be in the box!
2007-02-12 07:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want the woman to think it is the best she ever had....which it is, until she finds out that with one of "those" she can get all of "them" she wants..
2007-02-12 07:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋