i called my boyfriend to see why he hasn't called me and someone picks up and tells me not to call anymore because his girlfriend is getting upset..problem is that his cousin uses his phone a lot and they boyh sound alike, of course i went on the defense and didnt ask who i was speaking too, whatvwould you do in a sistuation like this...please help?
2007-02-11 23:00:12 · 10 answers · asked by Officialy Missing You... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try and get to the bottom of it either by speaking to his cousin or him. That would have driven me crazy and i would want to get to the bottom of it just purely for peace of mind. If he has got another g/f then he is a cowardly idiot who doesnt deserve you but you wont know until you try and find out. I know its upsetting but the sooner you get it straight the sooner you can either sort it out or ditch him.
2007-02-11 23:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boy friend is "hiding out" and not wanting to talk to you...but the only way you'll know for sure is talk to him in person if possible. His cousin could be "cluing you in" to what is really happening. If you can just never do that, then think it must be pretty clear he has found another girl friend and just can't be honest about it.
Probably best to just forget him...he isn't worth it if this is the way he treats you. Find someone who respects you enough to treat you with consideration.
2007-02-12 07:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend...
it sounds as though he's avoiding you, so as not to have to tell you he's found someone new. Move on.. if he can't be straight with you, nor call you he isn't worth it. Pick a new flavor of the month.
2007-02-12 07:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Golde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cousin was trying to tell you in a nice way that your boyfriend is cheating on you without betraying his cousin. Let him go girl, you don't need the drama.
2007-02-12 07:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have it out with him! If it is his cousin then ask him to stop his cousin from teasing you! If not, then leave him and find a nice guy without a cousin! Have a good day, hon!
2007-02-12 07:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's not calling you enough so play it cool and let him call you. when he does, ask about his cousin and if he has a gf
2007-02-12 07:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mike H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not a relationship breaker. If you are there are some consequences you must accept you deserve to live with.
Sorry.
2007-02-12 07:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds fishy to me...don't call and when he calls you. suggest that he not allow others to use his phone. he obviously isn't monitoring what they are doing with his phone. if he denies everything...get out while it's easy.
2007-02-12 07:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a new girlfriend. and he is too cowardly to tell you.
2007-02-12 07:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm.. maybe he got a new GF.. that will be your worst nightmare..
2007-02-12 07:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋