Save my soul,people of God!?

Question

Dear people in Christ,
Iam a 22/female born-again believer.My parents were divorced when i was 17.I fell in love with a man, who's a pastor's son.He had recieved 2 prohecies from GOD thru his father regarding the girl he wud marry.
1)The girl he marries will be the only daughter to her parents.
2)The girl's parent's will come to his home together.

Im the only daughter at home and myself and my man were praying for my parents to re-unite so that the prophecies gets fulfilled.Last dec,he came home to visit all my people,met my parents in their places.One day during that week, we both slept togther n hence have sinned against GOD.
Now since my parents havent re-united yet, he is reluctant to marry me cos in so doing he shall walk against the prophesy God gave him.
I cant even think of marrying anyother guy and cheating him in name of marraige.What must i do? must i talk to his parents? Iam soo rejected and decieved.Please helppp this sinner...plssss

Answer 1

I want to tell you that you are not a sinner just because on a certain ocassion you made a bad decision. If you had continued doing this indefinately and consciously, then it'd been a different story.
Let me be clear about prophecies, they are to be taken with a grain of salt. I cannot be more emphatic about this: when an action, behavior, is expected from someone (you and your parents) in order to benefit a particular individual (the peacher and his son), that is not a prophecy. That is conditioning. Let me give you an example, assume I had a prophecy: Before the sun rises, One stranger, from a distant town in Norht America, the second month of the year on the 12th day, I will receive a message: a note that will give me the solution to my need. Now what If I say that you are this person and that you have to provide me with this note? I inform you that God almighty talked to me and specifically mention this. ( I just made this up... but do you get my point?)

In addition, in the realm of faith rarely does one question anything, but this isn't about faith in God, is is about an expectation that something takes place (or doesn't, which is the case) in order for this individual to get away with mischief. I can assure you that while you are spending precious time thinking about this issue (that is very important, nonetheles), he is sleeping like a fat pig in a mud pit. Let me mention something personal: Virginity is not only a physical aspect, it encompasses an spiritual side that has to do with the feelings, the very deep warm sensations of heart... to be more precise. You have lost nothing (metaphoracly speaking). If anything, you gained something from this and it is the lesson to believe only in Holy Scriptures, not in the interpretations of this 'person' an his son, who have nothing holy between them two. They were well intended, don't get me wrong, but by your account, what happened was mutual and it seems that you are the only one paying for the consequences.
Be strong, do not feel ashamed, do not think for a minute that God does not love you. You are blessed and you have talents. It is difficult, I know, but try to occupy yourself with wothwhile activities: go feed the homeless, volunteer at convalescent place, be pro-active and take charge. God wants us to find happiness within ourselves, so start to change your attitude towards the better, one step at a time. You do not go back to this relationship, it will fill you with guilt, shame, and you don't want that.
You will have many, many opportunities to come closer to God and you need to start working now.

Answer 2

A true Prophecy from God will come to pass, It is sad that many so call Christians try to put their own prophecy to something to make people think they have something, First of all if that prophecy was true, Then that person would have also Prophcied that you 2 would have committed adultry.

Answer 3

Well, give time for God to mend the relationship of your parents. As for your sin, Jesus forgives you as long as you are truly sorry for it. You're human and so am I, we make the dumbest mistakes ever and yet Jesus would gladly accept us despite it all! talk to God and ask Him for His guidance, everyone can hear His voice. Listen real closely and You'll hear His answer. It's sometimes faint, but always warm and it makes you feel happier. I hope you find your happiness. I hope that guy also understands somehow! Good Luck and God Bless!:)

Answer 4

Dont think of yourself to be a sinner.You got carried away in what you thought was love but for him it was the body.
This world is a beautiful place provided you keep your mind and eyes wide open.First of all come out of guilt.Think of getting a job,be independent.Let him beg for your love but stop running behind him.If he loves you truly he will come back to you else just forget him.Marriage is not the only aim of every girl.earn for yourself.Believe in God,He will show you the right path.

Answer 5

Nobody can save your, except yourself.
The way to it is reading the Holy Books by yourself and put the sacred verses into practice. When you do the Will of God and pray for His assistane, He will show you the way out. People around you can give counsels, encouragement, support...but nobody can solve your problems.

Answer 6

Don't expect any help from these online nutjobs or god. You are on youre own.

Edit: God has billions of people asking him for stuff. What makes you any special? Dump him and go find someone else.

Answer 7

I have recd your story sincerely. when you believe in god than don't think otherwise & belive that the god's judgement is always right. hence you should eccept the chalange & think about your future insted of your Past.

Answer 8

Thats bullsh*t

Answer 9

My advice? Drop the jerk, drop religion altogether, find a nice atheist guy (like me) who won't have anybody to worship except you.

Answer 10

I think you may be crazy and your boyfriend and his parents too.