I've been living with my fiance since last august, would god consider this a sin?
2007-02-11 21:34:38 · 20 answers · asked by le_disko 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If in your Heart you are already married then God knows that. If you are living with him merely for pleasure then that is something different.
2007-02-11 21:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by January00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have discovered a guilty pleasure, and you won't go to jail for it!
Whether living with your fiance is a "sin" is up to you. If your choice troubles you, talk to your fiance or a good friend about it.
It is your life, and I would hope that your God would support you in whatever decisions make sense to you. I like to imagine a God who disapproves of a$$-kissing. If you are cool with it, hopefully your God will be too.
2007-02-12 05:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes God would consider it a sin but God demands that he and he alone gets to say what is right or wrong. My marriage is not blessed by the Catholic church so I have been living in sin for 20 years.
2007-02-12 05:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lynnemarie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God's arrangement is that for man and woman to live together, with the enjoyment of sexual relations, they have to be properly wed. Otherwise, it's simply a case of two people committing fornication, which is a serious sin in God's eyes.
2007-02-12 06:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by X 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
I was called by the Lord very recently, and was Baptized on the 4th of this month.
I was concerned by this, and so I prayed to the Lord for an answer, a few minutes later i received it, whilst studying his word the bible, which says:
1 Corinthians 7:17Nevertheless, each one should retain the place in life that the Lord assigned to him and to which God has called him. This is the rule I lay down in all the churches. 18Was a man already circumcised when he was called? He should not become uncircumcised. Was a man uncircumcised when he was called? He should not be circumcised. 19Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Keeping God's commands is what counts. 20Each one should remain in the situation which he was in when God called him. 21Were you a slave when you were called? Don't let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. 22For he who was a slave when he was called by the Lord is the Lord's freedman; similarly, he who was a free man when he was called is Christ's slave. 23You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of men. 24Brothers, each man, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation God called him to.
The Lord works these ways in our life for as reason, and you have to trust in him, and in his son as Saviour. He will not put us in any situation that is more than we can bare.
In all things we should bear in mind that whatever happens to us, in Christ, it is for the best.
I would advise you to pray for the guidance of the lord on this matter, he will help you!: Matthew 11:28"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
God Bless
2007-02-12 05:48:30 · answer #5 · answered by ianptitchener 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And u r asking it on Yahoo Answers. Maybe u should try Godly Answers. I mean come on does he have this much time to check on u. In the end, he is not intrested in what u ate or who loved n spent ur life and had sex with without getting married. These are all social taboos. He is more intrested in ur attitude towards people. Are u kind-hearted or not. Are u compassionate or not. Long live Imam Chris Rock. And I was born in a Muslim family. Please live and let live. Love all hate none. These slogans are not only to read but we really should embrace them. I love u whoever u r. Live with ur fiance and love him/her and enjoy the moments.
2007-02-12 05:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO !!!! ive lived with my girlfriend for ten years. we have three beautiful kids. We live in a modern era that is some time frowned upon from old style values.Others can always give advise and there personal preferences to your question . YOU are unique and individual . Answer yourself . Does it feel good to u ?
2007-02-12 06:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by ADONIS G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as i think if you are living with your fiance it is not a sin unless if you are married
2007-02-12 05:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by jhon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video tape yourself sinning in a lustful manner and send it to me
here my home address
Lou Siffer
666 Hot Way apt 3
Damnation TN
2007-02-12 05:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by pillsbury_whiteboy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, if you don't succumb to the temptation of fornication. However, some religions are more strict on this issue than others.
2007-02-12 05:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋