right since my break up Ive wanted to get back with her but realise now that its better off how it is due to many factors which I cannot fit into a 1000 words.
Anyway I wouldnt mind being mates with her and still doing stuff together. we are still close with like cuddling and holding hands just no kissing/sex etc
Just wondering if the relationship as friends would work or not? I guess im asking for other people who have remained friends and tell about their experience.
I would get jealous if she found someone else but I do love her and i care for her alot and I dont want to loose her outta my life completely. I was thinking of distanting myself from her for a few weeks and then let her get into contact with me. obviously let her know this and when she is ready just to ring me.
Our relationship for the most part was amazing, and I just want are freindship to be amazing and still have fun and go out places etc
part of me will always love her though we are both changing
2007-02-11 21:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know whether its that sort of love we feel between eachother. I dont know whether I miss her as a person or us being together. towards the end are reltionship was abit rocky and we werent very intimate- meen we still had sex but never made alot of effort with eachother.
She says she doesnt feel for me in that way which hurts but ive got my own life to get on with and can accept it. meen I was also thinking about ending it as Im going in the RAF in a few months. and theres no way it would work because we are still both young. Im 20. shes just turnt 17
2007-02-11 22:28:17 · update #1
It really depends on the type of person she is.
I spilt from my ex 6yrs ago and we are still the best of friends and she at the time broke my heart for months on end I was a total wreck,but didn't resort to pestering her we made contact now and again and once I got over things we became the best of friends and to this day visit each others houses once a week and have the odd day out together it can work although its not easy,even now I still love her to bits,but respect the fact that she don't want a sexual relationship with me any more.
Good luck hope you get what you want :)
2007-02-11 23:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See There's no right thing and wrong thing bout being friends with your ex. Thing is, if you are so darn sure that you care for eachother as friends then go ahead.
I got a good friend--almost a brother kinda friend. After three years of being really good friends, we became a couple. Three years into being an 'item' we parted ways-in good terms. We said to eachother, that first and foremost we were friends and shall remain so. more importantly we treasure eachother's friendship. 4 long years after the break up we're pretty good friends again. not the same closeness but still real friends.:D
2007-02-12 05:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by jennie o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love,jelousy, physical attraction, and the compatibility are still there, then why on earth did you break up? Dude, get back together with her before its too late and stop worrying about all the things in your head. There is nothing worth losing such a beautiful relationship no matter what. You might never find it again so take care..
2007-02-12 06:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMMMMM thats tough... there will always be feelings there and i mean feelings of attraction and jealousy etc... its happened to me a few times sometimes i didnt even date the guy! look its always good to stay in contact and just to spend time with them rocks... i am actually still trying to answer this question myself but the only reason i keeptrying is because i think "maybe if i look good today they will notice me,and want me back etc" it might end in heart ache for you sweety but i think give it a shot... but definately let her contact you first!
2007-02-12 05:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by harriette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as you're both aware that its FRIENDS you're gona be then I dont see a problem - you both need to know the score though and not fall back into the habit of jumping into bed for the odd shag etc - friends are friends so dont complicate your situation!
xx
2007-02-12 05:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better try when youre both ready. time apart will help. like years, depends. its even better if you both have someone new. just be sure youre no longer in a rebound.
if you stay close to her without any defense, youll never get over her. really.
2007-02-12 08:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship will work as mates is up to you, it all depends on how you feel and if you would be able to cope if she was with someone new!
good luck babe hope it does work xx
2007-02-12 07:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by crystal clear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might... it might not..... it's something you'll have to decide you want todo or not.... My Ex and I DON'T get along
2007-02-12 05:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by mdlbldrmatt135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been down this road it will never work
2007-02-12 05:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋