i'm so confused, i was going out with this guy for like a month and i really really liked him but he went away to join the US army (i live in australia) and he will be away for at least 2 years, but he doesnt know how long he will be in the army for he might stay longer, and i dont know if i will see him again.... but there is this guy at my work and we've been hanging out and i really like him, but i think he likes another girl at my work (actually everyone at my work thinx there's something going on) and my god I'm just so confused....
2007-02-11 21:21:27 · 11 answers · asked by buttafly_biattch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
very possible...it is because not everyone has the same exact qualities...we might see a quality in one person that we don't see in the other...but choosing both will give you "zero" in the end..
2007-02-11 21:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Lyt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys usually like every attractive woman. And I see no reason why it would any different for a woman with handsome guys.
But I think that mixing a romantic relationship with work is a bad idea, especially when there are rumors that the guy is already involved with someone at your workplace.
Think not only of what you can gain, but of what you can loose. Would you want to come to work every day with people whispering behind your back and the guy snickering at you with his other girl?
This is what often happens when a relationship at work doesn't work out. And the wost thing about it is that the only way you can get away is to quit your job and find another one.
2007-02-11 21:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, take a deep breath. I don't see anything complex. Stay alone for a while and think over it. Do you miss the first one? Are you able to wait for him for two years (not anybody can sustain it)? If you can and if it is really worthy then you have nothing to think over...
Second version: if your relationship with the first one is not too strong then break with him and make your life as you want to.
2007-02-11 21:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ jolie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it sure is if your guy is away and you are already having douts then i would see where things could go whith the other guy be up front with the away guy tell him you want to date while he is away that way you can be sure of your feelings and ask the work guy if he would like to have coffee with you then ask him if he is interested in the other girl at work just follow the lead
2007-02-11 21:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by norma jean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liking two guys at the same time is entirely possible and perfectly OK. Starting something with both of them at the same time is not.
2007-02-11 21:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its normal for u to fell that way your love just left. your young you need to explore. go for the move if you like than take it if you don't than move on there will be guilt but you cant wait for ever move on. true love cant wait and its worth fighting for.
2007-02-11 21:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh..
It is possibible because it's happening you know & im sure you're not the first person on this planet to.
That's the answer to your question.
2007-02-11 21:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait for your army man
2007-02-11 21:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible but make up your mind girl.
2007-02-11 21:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
search another partner or wait for first love.don't snatch anyone's man...
2007-02-11 21:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by raaj1111 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋