2007-02-11 21:15:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have 2 choices:
Stay where you are & risk being hurt badly
or remove yourself from the abuser.
Do which option you think is best.
I know that's a hard choice.
People who abuse do not tend to stop being abusive
(in my experience).
Your headache therefore gets worse...
If you can, look for somewhere else where you can go, where you can find PEACE.
You cannot function if you are being undermined, living in a state of fear & feeling the need to justify your existence continually.
Realise you are being bullied, to make you feel unimportant.
You do not have to accept being bullied.
The person who is abusing you is in the wrong.
There are agencies out there to help people in your situation, you just have to find them & TALK to them about what is happening to you.
I don't know what your situation is, so you need to identify which agency best suits your needs.
The police have an active domestic violence officer attached to every main police station that you can speak to.
If you are a child, speak to your head teacher at school.
If you need to, post extra details here, so Yahoo can you help you more specifically.
OK?
2007-02-11 21:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a quick fix solution for you obviously the best answer would be for me to tell you to get out but i somehow get the feeling that you know that already....so the answer really lies in you , you know the facts you know what happens to most women who are in abusive relationships so right now you have to choose if your life is worth saving or not......
hope you make the right choice
2007-02-11 21:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Nokuthula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, if you tell people what he's like then I'm sure nothing will happen. Get a restraining order. Move all your stuff out when he's in work. Just think, you have ONE life, why would you want to waste it? You could be with a lovely man who treats you right! enjoy your life while you're still young enough to.
2007-02-11 21:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason why youre stuck is because you want to stay. Leave the relationship and back to loving yourself.
2007-02-11 21:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what is so applealing for you to stay but get that thought out of your head it is NOT worth staying. Girl you desirve much better then this, I know change is easier said then done but you have to change in order for you to get a better life may God bless you on this journey.
2007-02-11 21:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help.
You should have a local shelter for abused woman and they can give you advice on how to end it.
2007-02-11 21:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by tharnpfeffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide for yourself if you want to be in it or not. Most people think they want to leave but the reality of the break up is to much and they end up back where they started. What would you do?
2007-02-11 21:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u do. the only thing is make a choice. a choice to stay happy or get stucked the rest of ur life.
2007-02-11 21:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by belle_dulnuan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear I'm sorry to hear this but i think you know yourself you need to go if you are scared of leaving why hes there wait till he goes out and then leave if you have no where to go phone the Samaritans social services or go to your docs and they will be able to find you somewhere safe to be good luck x
2007-02-11 21:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first misconception is that your "stuck". No one is ever stuck anywhere, it just depends if your strong enough to get up and move on. I say do it.
2007-02-11 21:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋