What am i looking for to make sure she was flirting with him. His face was bright red is that a ding ding we have a winner duh thing I am kinda thinking so. What do I say. I have anger problems and am afraid of going on a phsycho babble rampage sometimes so I hold back but what do u say? He still deny's it and she's gone but this stupid thing is annoying me still. What do I say/do next time?
2007-02-11 20:41:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's up to your boyfriend to say something like: I would like you to meet my gitlfriend, or something to that fact, and if he doesn't you need to leave his ***!!
2007-02-11 20:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remain calm, and while she's trying to flirt with your man, you lean in, grab the side of his face, and start to kiss his neck. He'll lose all concentration and she'll feel like an idiot flirting with a man who isnt even paying attention to her anymore . But before you do that you gotta give her one of those side smiles that says "you can flirt, but he's going home with me" because that will piss her off and embarrass her.
Or.....if you're really pissed off at your boyfriend, the next time some woman tries to come on to him, you say "You can have him, if you're okay with 30 second love making with a 3 inch penis...Im still not sure what that rash deal he has going on down there is ...."
that should sway any further flirting attempts...and embarrass the hell out of him.
2007-02-11 20:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not flirting back, then there is nothing to worry about. If he responded to her in such a way that you believe he was a out of line, then you have to let him know. First and foremost, stay very very calm; don't assume he knew he was out of line; explain to him that his behavior hurt your feelings. Don't say "You" hurt my feelings, explain exactly which part of his behavior bothered you. If you and he reach an agreement, he would know how to handle her next time. If he can't understand why his behavior bothered you, don't let the conversation escalate, just try again when you are both calmer. If he agrees that he was out of line but repeats his behavior, don't expect that he'll change, and you would have a choice to make about your relationship.
One thing you must never do is to take revenge. If you did, you would be setting an exmaple to him how to deal with his future problems with you, and your relationship would be in the shadow of both the original incident as well as the revenge.
2007-02-11 21:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Observer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If some chick has the audacity to flirt with your bf right in front of you she deserves an azz kicking in my opinion. It's almost like she is challenging you and putting you poor embarrassed bf right in the middle. I'd stay close, watch her and if she pulls this **** again take her to the side and say " this time I'm going to be nice and warn you to stay away, next time no warning and trust me BIT**ch it will hurt you alot more than it'll hurt me"
2007-02-11 20:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly refer to this guy. He he flirts with those style of alternative chicks, while there is not any reason he would desire to act advise to you. And if I have been you, i'd tell him to quit the flirting, and quit appearing like a jerk. men CAN refer to women and not flirt with them. and there is not any reason for him to be a jerk. permit him understand what's up.
2016-09-29 00:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, umm, hard and awquard situation. Not very nice is it, think of it like this. Your the one with the guy, so her flirting with him, means she's jealous of you. Don't get angry, just tell her like it is. If it happens again, get right up into her face and say it like it is..Hes your boyfriend, so back off. If your bf gets upset about you doing this you know he liked it, and hes not worth being with. If the girl doesn't back off, pull your bf to one side, and ask him to say something, if he does, you know he doesnt enjoy the flirting. If he doesn't then, again he's not worth being with. If the girl doesn't back off. Just ignore her, both of you. She'll soon realise the loser she is. xxJem
2007-02-11 20:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u might as well get a bit closer to him or put your arm round him or somethin just to make the other girl back up a step or two and to show hes already taken
2007-02-11 20:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by 02n3dj8opzt82m p00ned?!?!? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have said something the first time so it won't be a next time. I made it clear to my man that if a female approaches him to tell her to just walk away. I also have anger problems so he knows if he doesn't want to be embarassed, politely get rid of the b*tch!
2007-02-11 21:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by miss_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that encounter once and I just walked away and he came running after me like a puppy then I giggled. Thats the key to embarassing a man who flirts back, make him look like a wuss and he wont do it again.
2007-02-11 20:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happens again and your bf does nothing to flirt back just sit back and have a laugh, after all he is going home with you and she wants something she cant have and that something you are gona enjoy this evening.
2007-02-11 22:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're sure that some girl is intentionally flirting with your boyfriend then just tell her you'd appreciate it if she wouldn't do that. You could also tell your boyfriend that it would be nice if he would tell girls that as well. You shouldn't have to stick up for yourself in those situations.
2007-02-11 20:47:42 · answer #11 · answered by theanswerman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋