Me and my boyfriend just made a year (today) but we almost broke up yesterday. Theres a lot of problems, but not really amongst ourselves, but with outside conflicts (which then affects us). We had break up near new years, and it was really bad - but we were back together after a couple hours. We always try to break up, but we never really can actually go through with it. I know I love him with all my heart, but i get too hurt easily with him, and he gets hurt too easily with me. We've tried to have some time apart to start things over, but we're never able to, and I can't seem to put a pause to our year. I have no idea what to do because when we fight I'm usually the one that has to fix things, then in the middle of our argument he tries to be all sweet and let it pass but I don't want to because I want to finish and get things clear - but it just makes me angrier when he does that! :( I need help... Sorry for making this so long..
2007-02-11 20:27:27 · 5 answers · asked by No. 01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is love!!!! and just coz too deep love!!!!!!!!!!!! i had this problem with my bf earlier, both of us got hurt that time, but both of us still tried a lot to be together...
wat to say, love is soo complicated to explain and every couple have different problem, but trust me, if you guys really really love each other, just try and try again to understand each other and try to stand on each other position, try to learn how to COMPROMISE..
good luck!!
2007-02-11 20:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through a patch with my old boyfriend Harry, it was also a year, but every so often a HUGE arguement would occur, and it wasn't nice. And i was the one that was always fixing things, but in the end i just didn't try to fix it, i thought why bother? Harry didn't obviously want me, or there was something wrong that he wasn't telling me so we ended it. Yes i felt heartbroken and hurt for a while. But my friends took me out, we went lots of places to take my mind off of it, and it worked, i soon began to move on and start a new life without him. Sounds silly, but things were so much better without him, i actually didn't need him at all, life was more fun, i was out more, losing weight from not being in with him all the time etc, lots of things changed, for the best!! SO think, are you two wanting to split up?? Are these arguements silly little things that can be fixed?, or, does your bf still want a relationship?.. If i were you (which im not, its up to you what you do :) ), i would.. either sit down and talk to him about the situation, see if it is him, if he still wants to be with you, or what. Or wait to see if another arguement occurs, and don't be the one to fix it, see if the bf steps up and fixes it. This will show if he really cares. Sorry i made it too long also. lol, much love Jem xxx Good luck.
2007-02-12 04:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When he tries to be sweet, you should let things cool off for a little while. Wait until things are more stable before trying to get things clarified.
2007-02-12 04:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u need to make him sit down and have a real long talk. Dont let him pull it on u.
2007-02-12 04:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by jimmykicksasses81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to learn to hold your tongues,
and stop the fighting.
2007-02-12 04:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋