both of us working , when we came back from our jobs we fell so tired because of that we dont have much time for sex and if he do it he onley takes one houre or less so that makes me not happy ?!
what should i do to help both of us ?!>>>>....
2007-02-11 19:08:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Lots of drugs on the market, Cialis, Viagra, the one with smiling Bob (I cant remember the name). Natural ways, take some vacation time and go on a romantic second honeymoon of sorts.
2007-02-11 19:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time off from work even if it is for just a day or two. Go to a bed and breakfast or hell have one at home but no phone no distractions, give each other massages no clothing make it sexual try using oils or something play games or dress up theres alot you can do go get a wax brazillian surprise him. put on nothing but some sexy underwear and a pair of heals. Call him at work and tell him you won't be wearing any underwear when he gets home he will have something to look forward to all day it will be going through his mind and he will be turned on. You dont have to go anywhere just take some time. Make a dinner really it just depends on what you and your husband like and how you are sexually as a couple and what you are open to. Me personally i would take the day off and reqest that my husband do the same (if i was you i mean) um do the wax thing or just shave but a wax is better, then put on the sexy underwear and the heals and have some massage oils, towles, relaxing music, and tell my husband i was going to give him a massage but one thing he has to remove all clothing. i would get naked later. Give him a massage turn him on tempt him make sure that you rub up against him. make sure he can feel you. tell him you want to do things to him. Make him feel really good about working so hard. then when you get done with his back tell him to turn around sit on him and massage him and kiss him. See what happens.
2007-02-12 03:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kelsie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can afford it take a vacation off to somewhere, always take your vacation time at the same time. that way the first few days you can relax and the rest of the time you can catch up on whatever you need to catch up on if ya know what i mean. if you cant spare the cash to take a vacation, then make arrangements were you will be off like from thurs to monday and spend that time together. this is what marriage is all about both has to work at everything and you will not always be happy. just be happy you dont have a min man. lol
2007-02-12 03:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by treys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make More Time For You And Him To Be Together, Make It So You Both Will Have More Personal Time Together.
2007-02-12 03:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a Saturday night when you aren't working, or try to have sex in the morning. Typically if you plan a little getaway, it gives both partners something to look forward to, and when you finally do get away, the sex will be incredible.
2007-02-12 03:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all I can say is if he takes 1 hour, YOU ARE LUCKY!!! damn i wish i had that. But just try to set aside some special time for just the 2 of you. no work, no phone, tv, etc... maybe on a saturday or sunday. you both need to realize you work to live you dont live to work. you cant let your jobs control your life or ruin your relationship....just agree that you both need to take a little time for the 2 of you. and dont just say it, DO IT!!!
2007-02-12 03:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by kate81904 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you both work and your tierd and you think he is too. Me and my wife take a nap for a few hours and then we have sex. And more fourplay and try sat and sunday.
2007-02-12 04:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Yosapa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get an hour you should be happy. My husband only goes that long if he is drunk! Hey, at least you are having sex.
2007-02-12 12:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An hour!!! Lucky lady.....my husband takes less then 5 minutes from start to finish.
2007-02-12 03:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by yo_matilda_yo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk about it , keep the bed room sacred. meaning don't have sex until you have the time and energy to devote to it, then make time. get away,plan it ahead of time what ever it takes.
2007-02-12 03:14:48 · answer #10 · answered by _ESP_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋