Im a really nice guy, smart, funny, good sense of humor. Alot of the girls i talk to at work love me for who i am. I know more than 5 girls that say im hot, cute, sexy etc because they told me.... do you think that the girl that i like would find me attractive as well? I would like to get to know this girl but i have this feeling that im going to get rejected.
2007-02-11 18:42:22 · 19 answers · asked by Souljurr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should try.
But you should remember, just because some people find you attractive, doesn't mean everybody will. I'm not being a downer, I'm just saying don't get big-headed.
Just treat the compliments as a minute confidence boost.
Good luck.
2007-02-11 18:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't tell you that you won't be rejected. No one can say what another woman will or won't find attractive. But so what? Are you going to let the possibility that it might sting for a few minutes keep you from something that might feel good for a lot longer? Go ahead. Take a chance. if you don't give it a shot you will always wonder if you should have.
2007-02-11 18:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound really cool! I'd love a man like you approaching me!
However, you lack of "confidence". I mean.. C'mon! Just go for it! A rejection? I mean how would you know you were going to be rejected while you haven't even tried?
Trust yourself!
2007-02-11 18:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should trust that feeling of impending rejection. You know that something isn't right and that things will end badly. If she liked you back, you would know.
2007-02-11 19:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to ask her out. nuff said. Rejection is only perceived pain bro, in the end you will survive it, and if you approach women that you are attracted to, you will eventually get over that fear.
2007-02-11 18:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u never know...my huband though that i was goin to reject him and turn out i didnt reject him...cuz u know wat make the woman like u is to let her know that she the queen of ur life and knowin how to treat a woman cuz all the thing that u do that are sweet she will fall and be who u are...cuz u know wat i reject my husband at first but he didnt give up he still keep his head straight and anywaise show me that he want me and all these stuff and one day i though that my life would be better w/o him cuz he alwaise made me thing and give me things that i didnt want it from him..but when he was gone..i dont y it start it to make me realize that i like him too cuz there is no who is there showing me that they care..and than since than i start it to give him a chance...if she reject u and if u reallie like her and than just tell her that u want her to at least try to get to know u before she reject u or watever...cuz tell her that she never know u might be the one
2007-02-11 18:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by pheng l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Weatherman says sunny skies for the confident guys! But don't push your luck and overdo it ok?
2007-02-11 18:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by eyentmd8 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only way your going to find out is if you pursue the woman your attracted to,so go for it,if it doesn't work out so be it.plenty of fish in the sea.good luck
2007-02-11 18:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by TOM 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude is all you can do it try! What have you got to loose? You got 5 lined up any way Right?
2007-02-11 18:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PLEASE honey the LAST thing any couple needs is to hold back. you are too scred..seh is too scsred..if no one makes a move...how will anyhting go forward? what have you got to loose?
i am not the ugly and ive been rejected...guess what! i got over it!! if they say you are hot then hell give it a shot!
2007-02-11 18:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by joe schmoe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋