What things turn you off that other people do?

Question

My number one thing is people who think there time is more valuble then everyone elses.You?

Answer 1

Your gripe is a subset of my major turn-off. The thing that turns me off most is people behaving towards others without respect, courtesy or compassion.

And you can almost always identify these people by observing how they behave towards people who aren't in a position to defend themselves or retaliate.

Watch how people treat waiters and waitresses, clerks in shops, and other service people who aren't free to be rude back to people who behave meanly. Also watch how people talk about others who aren't around. Someone who will say mean or nasty things behind someone's back is to be avoided, because you know that given the right motivation, they will say mean and nasty things behind your back. Or lie, or do other harm.

Quality people treat all people with courtesy and compassion and respect. They do not condescend, patronize, or behave with meanness or rudeness. Not ever. Not to anyone. Not for any reason.

Answer 2

What you say is true|

*Sometimes* a doctor or an other professional can be late - things like that happen| But when it is a consistent pattern, know that he thinks that his time is more valuable than yours - that he is a more important person than you|


But the top most hateful thing for me is *deceit* or *lying|*

Some people you talk to are never straight with you and have a habit of lying to you|

And what is most hypocritical about such people is that they give you the impression that they are being honest with you| Such people completely disregard you as a human being and simply treat you as a means for their own ends| It is doubly hypocritical that when they do this, they are pretending to be your friend and are pretending to care about what is important just as you do| But all they are doing is using you for their own ends| And what is triply insideious is that they take what you have said to them in confidence and then use it to spread dirt about you all over the neighborhood| Then you can't figure out why everyone hates you|


This sort of thing is becoming more and more common|





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Answer 3

I hate people who dont show up to things on time. They have no value of other people's time. If you go to their house, they wait till the last person has arrived (late coming pple) to start the party instead of taking into account the people who've been there on time.

Answer 4

When people try to ask you for something without using full words/sentences. Instead they point or use phrases like "pass me the thing" and point to a general area.

Then they become bothered at you because you don't understand specifically what they are asking for.

I find it very irritating.

Answer 5

I cannot stand people who make a plan and ask you to do something and then either show up late or forget. It is so rude. Also someone who swears all the time. No class at all.

Answer 6

People that think they are better than everyone else.
We all put our pants on the same way.They need to clean up their own backyard before they go talking about other people. If their huge egos were balloons, I would like to pop everyone of them.

Answer 7

I guess, when people (speak badly) about others behind there back.
And they seem to do everything in there power to out the person in a group or enviroment, they are in. be it if they were there first or not...

It gets my back up and i find that kind of person is really not worth my time or effort.

Answer 8

Children and adult sons/daughters that accuse their parents of doing things to them because some obviously unstable individual enjoys using children and naive minds.

Answer 9

People who do not control their children in public places.

Answer 10

People that enjoy treating those in service jobs like sh*t and never tip.