so my brother(17) doesnt really live at home he comes on passes on weekends and spends the night.so thats the only time i get to spend time w/him.i go to school full time and my bf(21) works full-t ime so i only get to see him for a lil'on Mon. wed. or fridays. when he comes over he takes long naps @ my house & when he wakes up he has "to go" b/c he needs to get his sleep. so its only on weekends when i get to see him.now my dad is always pressuring me to invite my bro over with me and my bf!wherever we go. i ve tried it before but my bro cant go to the movies and be still he is hyperactive&cant chill. &i feel so left out b/c my bro always sends me to the back of the care when we all 3 go out and if i ask him to go to the back he gets butthurt. so now my bro iwhen he comes visit always wants to hangout with my bf and me I want to spend time with my bf b/c i berely get to see him and my bro can get annoying sometimes b/c he makes fun of my dad or me. he is always frustrated & arguing
2007-02-11 18:27:19 · 2 answers · asked by Dr. Truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
so am i being selfish ? b/c i want to hang out more with my bf alone than with my bro?...
my dad only wants me to bring my bro along because he doesnt want to deal with my bro complaining about how bored he is... and he just doesnt want to deal with him at all.. he basically wants me to "entertain' him ... and make him feel happy but my bro is never happy
2007-02-11 18:28:00 · update #1
i am 19 years old
2007-02-11 18:34:04 · update #2
you could be the problem. how old are you?
2007-02-11 18:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Alag N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your brother has a problem with making himself happy. He needs some counseling. But, too- it may be nice for him to have a guy's company sometimes- but not your boyfriend. Also- I would focus on my schoolwork. In a few years you may be going to college, and not around your brother so much.
2007-02-12 02:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋