is there any real men out here who won't play games?

Question

i'm tired of getting my heart broke. i'm in my thirties and i wish men would grow up.

i thought i had a good b/f.i went to high school with him and he is a year older. i thought he'd be different cuz he has a daughter. it would be nice to have one that won't blow me off, i'm trying to change careers and i need some encouragement.

Answer 1

There are ... unfortunately they seem to be few and far between. How about just enjoying your life without one for a while. Sometimes this is the best healer and who knows ... when you least expect it one might just appear. Don't be so discouraged ... use this time wisely! Enjoy life whether you are alone or with friends. As far as wishing men would grow up ... some never do, but this also holds true for women. Set your standards and don't waiver. Good luck!

Answer 2

Love is supposed to be EQUAL ,unconditional and healthy. Im a "REAL MAN " heres some advice (not a presumption ) if and when you decide to get involved again ask yourself " if i dont sleep with this man in the next week will he still stay until i feel its right ?" and if you dont have an immediate answer "he" probably wont be . Trust is sometimes an elusive part of love but it is the part that will make it endure .take the experience of each relationship with you to help refine what is right for you but leave the baggage in the closet .

Answer 3

As you know, men mature slower than women. It is scientifically proven. There are men out there that will devote themselves to you but it's a lil risky. Life is full of heartbreak no matter what you do. If you want someone that will never do you any harm mentally, physically, or emotionally, or even financially, then get w/ a man who has never had it. Or *and this may sound mean but one even admitted it on Mind of Mencia* get w/ a nerd/geek. They may not be the best looking of all men and they may not be athletic or any of that other stereotypical s**t but they will love you and are less likely to break your heart.

Answer 4

Most men will not grow up or if they do are incredibly boring. Do you think men do not find woman as game playing individuals? Nah, of course not, woman are always straight down the line, very honest, and always say exactly how they feel. Your question is either rhetorical and therefore unaswerable, or is actually a request to perhaps meet more men. I personally choose to believe the latter.

Answer 5

quite the mixed opinion so far eh? well heres my two cents to make an even dollar. i dont believe this is a gender issue. its a character issue. people like you find the wrong type, even though you try to avoid them. i find the same kind of women. but what can we do? fewer and fewer people have what it takes to be good to you. i hope there are good people out there too, but maybe this is our lot in life. maybe just take a break from the whole messed up headache of it all. i dont know what it will take to restore your faith in your future partner, but maybe its out there. isnt it worth trying? im sure youll find a good guy eventually. life cant always kick you around.

Answer 6

i too am in my thirties and would consider myself a real man. but i have also found girls would rather play games than commit. it just makes it so hard to find someone true. so you could almost say women should grow up as well. but then again, if we didnt have a child-like fun with it, it wouldnt be fun. just stay in there and hopefully soon you will find someone who is worth it. good luck:)

Answer 7

what do women mean by real men. i thought i was a real man but once my ex caught me she spent the rest of the time trying to change me.
i don't like to play games either and i grew up a long time ago. if you chat to me what you see is what you get.
email if you want tio know more.

Answer 8

yes there are still a lot of men who dont play games,, we ask the same questions about women too..there are still many guys who are serious. so dont give up on every guy you meet.life is full of chances and changes. everyone gets tired of the games.
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Answer 9

Yeah there are lots of men like that. They are the ones that you and most other women reject in favor of the "bad boys" who play games. Go figure.

Answer 10

Think about how you feel about yourself. Your choice of friends will reflect the opinion you hold about yourself. If you can truly love and honor and accept yourself, without judgment, you will only choose friends who will also honor you. And your choice will honor you. If you choose friends who dump on you, it is because you consider yourself dumpable. If you can't love yourself and be constant with yourself, why should anyone else? So, love and honor yourself and others will love and honor you.