i broke up with my ex 4 months ago.i thought im over with him but im not.when i was online,he quickly went offline.why is he avoiding me?i know he still cares about me. we broke up in a good way.
2007-02-11 17:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is never a good way to break up...someone is always hurt whether they show it or not. He is more than likely avoiding you because he does not want to wallow in or repeat the past. If you want the chance to be with him, I suggest you meet with him in person.
2007-02-11 17:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you haven't totally let go of him yet and you should because he seems as though he has seeing that he could actually avoid you. You have to get over this guy or else you would pass up on a really good opportunity to find someone else who is way better. We always think that the guy we are in love with is the best thing that could happen to us and eventually you find that its not that way when you break up. The rose colored glasses is lifted off and you see the hard plain ugly person for who they are. Take time and get over this guy totally then you go out have a very active and fun single life and when you are tired of being single and think that your heart could go out there and love again do it. But this time be more careful to whom so ever that you give your heart to.
2007-02-12 02:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no break up is ever in a goodway you might think it went good but he might still be trying to get over you so he's trying to avoid you and your thinking of him because when you care about somone the feelings dont just go away rather your a guy or girl guys have feelings too im not saying you want to b with him but you will always think of your x's from time to time
2007-02-12 01:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by comacati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's avoiding you because you are not a couple any longer. Sometime when people break up there is nothing after that.
2007-02-12 01:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move forward and and try not to harbour on him... you never know.... you may have a friend in the waking ... and give him the "sorry" busy signal
2007-02-12 01:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he avoids you because he is over you and when you get on line you keep trying to talk to him. you need to get over him and find someone else to talk to. you could try me if you like, send me an email :)
2007-02-12 01:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he think it's the best thing for him to move on..all u need to do is see if he will ever come back..cuz i know that miss a person it hurt alots cuz it's like he gone..but just see wat will happen...cuz if he reallie love u than one day he will come back..and married to someone who love u more than u love him..cuz ur love will fill in happiness
2007-02-12 01:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by pheng l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just painful for him... I broke up with my ex.. almost 2months ago and all. its just hard for him if he is trying to move on :)
2007-02-12 01:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he knows he screwed up and its too painful for him to confront you. you need to just be bold and walk up to him, ask him about his problem, and see what he sais. you have nothing to loose
2007-02-12 01:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by joe schmoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋