I am 43 years old man, who was involve on sex with anther male during my early age, and now for more than 17 years ago I have not doe this, but I still have the desaire to do.
I have not done during this periodi, because of the religon only, I really care about after death life. So please I need some help to get red of this bad desaire.
Answers could be sent to my e-mail : loob111s@yahoo.com
Thanks,
2007-02-11 17:20:17 · 7 answers · asked by sososo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you just ask God to take away the desire and temptation to be with men? All you need to do is pray and open up your bible and read the word and go to church regularly. Keep the communication lines open so that you will hear from God . Give your life to the lord and he will lead and guide you in everything. Do this as much as you can, every day if you can. You must be doing something right if you have not done anything in 17 years, you definitely are strong enough to have resisted doing anything. God has definitely been with you. You are concerned about where you will end up when you take your last breath and that is important, after all who really wants to burn in hell? But in this day and time when sexual activities are so open now, especially homosexual activities( I live in NYC and see it all here) you will always be exposed to this whether you want to or not, it is in the world and you are part of this world. So pray and ask God to please take away the ungodly desires that have been plaguing you for all these years. There's no doubt in my mind that He will do it for you.
2007-02-11 17:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by sauceyrose2001 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am gay. It is only by the amazing grace provide by Christ that I can be honest about being gay without any inkling of condemnation. Christ will be my attorney. He is and will be my saviour at the time of judgement. Happiness and contentment is no longer what I seek as I get older. I seek to love and be loved. Whether I love a man or a woman, if the love is sincere, there is no condemnation in love and truth.
Sorry, but no matter how hard you pray. No matter how close your relationship is with god, your desires will never go away. People who promise that they will like the girl below me have no idea what a gay man goes through. But God provided a new way through Christ. You no longer have to live the perfect life cause Christ already did it for you.
2007-02-12 01:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey, my best friend is gay and i'm bi and a lot of my friends are either homo or bisexual. Let me put it to you this way....how else would you get rid of a desire for anything? You'd go ahead and do it. It's nothing to be ashamed of. You don't chose these things, god truly chooses them for you. That's what people don't understand. If god created all then he must have created homosexuality. So therefore it's fine.
2007-02-12 01:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by dr_mctwitch 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First and foremost you must pray. You really don't desire a man. What you desire is anal penetration. I have heard that once it has happened it is actually craved. It is like an addiction. Don't give in as it is a sin and you will lose your soul if you die in this state of mortal sin. Keep putting this desire out of your head and pray for this temptation to go away and God will hear your prayer.
2007-02-12 01:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by jpslappey 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hmm, organised religion or innate desire. I know which one was around first, and I know which one will make you happier in life.
2007-02-12 01:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by pablomofo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You carn't your natually gay, I would just say go for it, your god will forgive you, for you ovusly are a good person
2007-02-12 01:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
accept the fact that you're gay....or atleast bi.....and live your life in happiness
2007-02-12 01:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋