I am on 43 years old man who was involve on sex with anther male during my early age, and now for more than 17 years ago I have not doe this but I still have the desaire to do.
I am not do it because of the religon only, I really care about after death life. So please I need some help to get red of this bad desaire,
Thanks,
2007-02-11 17:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by sososo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only in your heart you know what you want... this is your soul decision..
2007-02-11 17:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear confussed,
Society has led us to believe that it is wrong and if we engage in such activity then we will go to hell. However, I think that you should do what makes you happy. If you want to try it then I say go for it. There is nothing wrong with that. It is normal to have this desire. Many straight men even if they don't admit it at least once in their life have had similar thoughts. You are only human. Please don't stress over something like that. Be happy. In my opinion I think god wants us to be happy and at long as we don;t do harm to anyone then you are good.
2007-02-12 01:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Houtxchico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your desire has nothing to do with life and death.
IF I were you, I'd go for the desire.
I'm 49 and just for the first time experienced anal sex. I want to do it again, but I sure don't think I['ll die because of my desire. GOD died so we can sin. As long as we pray and say we're sorry for the sins.
Go for it. Be happy.
2007-02-12 01:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are born with it and you can't get ride of it. Just like the straight people, the straight people can't get rid of their desire for the opposite sex. They can't become gay or bi, even if they are forced to.
In the eyes of God, it is what you do with your desire that matters. This goes for the straights too.
2007-02-12 01:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever think that u may just be gay? u could find someone who will be willing to ease the itch for u-but i doubt that will sooth u much.
2007-02-12 01:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to someone about how you feeling if this
is something that you truly want to be then dont keep your feeling
in but it sound like you really want to be with men.
2007-02-12 01:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PRAY
belive the power of praying
ask god
good luck
2007-02-12 01:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ased Kooshan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you come to China?
2007-02-12 01:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by Me Here. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋