Which guy? or no guy?

Question

A year ago I ended a 4 year relationship; I’ve been ready to move on and have also been dating many men but never want to get serious with them. Right now there are two guys in my life. The first is Dan, he and I have become best friends since we've met (almost 6 months ago). We can talk for hour’s everyday and never get bored, he makes me laugh. However, he's my complete opposite and sometimes we argue about the stupidest things. I'm not attracted to him, but I am attracted to his personality I find him very interesting, this is why I’ve managed to stay close to him. The other guy in my life is Drew, I met him this summer and we've been off and on dating. He's extremely shy, but he's one of the most genuinely nice guys I’ve ever met. He's cute. We barely talk and he's very slow on making any moves. I'm not the type of girl that moves fast into a relationship however, he just recently kissed me for the first time after dating for over a month. Should I give one a chance or keep looking

Answer 1

i think drew is a more sure catch since idk maybe dan doesnt seem serious or something kinda like a player kind of guy lol yeah funny guys are not always most genuine cuz of their extroverted personality they could be like this with everyone so its hard to tell if he is just playing u or something but guys who are slower might be better cuz they usually think before they act so usually they mean what they do
good luck hope u make the right choice

Answer 2

First things first you need to know what you are looking for BEFORE you start dating guys...it is not nice to string along guys while you figure out what you want in your life...take a break and focus on yourself.

Answer 3

from the sounds of it, you'll be looking forever. you need to know who you are and find out what datings about, it's about getting married, then learning and enjoying the person.