I have two but related on the same question..... 1. do you think that 10 months is too soon to be proposed to.....2. how long was it be for you were ask or how you think it should be before someone should be asked ....?
2007-02-11 16:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just wanna say just only follow ur heart whatever people do or say doesn`t matter. It`s ur life so decision should b ur`s. If after 10 months u find him suitable 4 u then y waitng...?? If still need some time to ask then OK FINE.
2007-02-11 17:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by HEMANT K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are deeply questioning it then deep down you most likely feel it's too soon. So don't let others tell you what you should do. Tell the person you need a little more time to make sure things are gonna work out right. An open honest conversation is good for a relationship than burying regrets within that might get worse later. There's a feeling of the moment being right when the moment is right to move a relationship forward. Some people feel ready to move forward faster than others. There should be mutual respect in a relationship and you should both feel the time is right to move forward before you do. 'two hearts should beat as one'
2007-02-12 01:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is just as there isn't an age limit for marriage it goes the same with time. There is no specific timing for you to actually get married. I think if you are ready for it then go for it. If you aren't then don't waste your time. Marriage is something that is very simple but people complicate it and this is what I would like to know. Why?
You love each other right?
You want to be together forever?
You are on the same page as in understanding?
You trust each other?
You can't stand being without the other person as in sleeping with them, eating even bathing yet, you are unsure?
Ten months has been too long if you have been feeling this way all along. Baby I understand that you want to know the guy before you are ready to jump into marriage but I think that if you haven't known him in ten months then something is wrong. People normally take a while as in two years and all that to pop the question because they aren't sure. its so simple that its stupid and soon enough its going to come down to this: everyone has faults but its if you could live with his fault and if he could live with yours.
i might be different from you I might be able to live with someone who lives on the edge when you might pref err someone who is a person that likes the indoors.
What I would say is that I think that you should get married to this guy in the morning if you love, trust, understand, know as far as you can about him, enjoy spending time with him, adore him, believe in your relationship working and could compromise with him even plan then this is something that would work. This is the material for marriage if you are ready go for it if you aren't give it time.
2007-02-12 01:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not about how long, but how much. is 10 months too soon, no, if you've spend a lot of time getting to know eachother and learning about what you want out of the future. People spend 4 years in college to do a job for 30 years, then they'll spend no time learning about marriage that lasts forever, just make sure you learn what marriage is about.
2007-02-12 01:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Annkissus, it will be the right time when you know that you can put his needs above your own, and he is willing to do the same. That means, that no matter what, you are committed to working ANY problem out. And more importantly, you know that he feels the same way. Think about the words on the traditional marriage vows. Are you and him both willing to make that level of a real commitment to one another?
When you both are ready to make that lifelong, no-matter-what-comes-up-we-will-ALWAYS-be willing to put one another as the main priority in our lives. Then you both are ready for marriage. Until then, the amount of time does not matter.
2007-02-12 01:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think 10 months is too soon if it feels right for you. My ex asked me to marry him after 3 years together. My new bf asked me to move in with him after 20 days....so it depends on the people
2007-02-12 01:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that that is way too soon because one of my friend's brother was dating this girl for about 6 months and now they are married. I think that it depends on the person because now it has been 2 years and they are still happily married.
2007-02-12 00:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there's no fast and right answer. Somehow, it is hard to find someone who experiences the same level/form of relationship as one does. How fast and how slow are mere generalisations and relationships should never be generalised because of that. Relationships involve the inner feeling of how contented one is, etc.. So, you have to ask yourself: Is he the one? If you could answer that question for yourself, all other people's perception will no longer matter.
2007-02-12 00:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not the real question. The real question is: How long will your marriage last? (forever or 10 month?)
2007-02-12 00:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by tevias2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋