Every guy I get involved with always ends up asking for more than just casual sex.Where are all the guy who just want to have fun?Why are the guys today asking for more?It's beyond me.At 21 I just want to have fun.I really don't get men.An offer of casual sex with no strings attached used to sound good to guys now-a-days they all want more.What's wrong with the men of today?
2007-02-11 16:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's reali weird of u as a gal asking us this... Are u calling Aids to u be part of ur life??
2007-02-11 16:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how far we've come in the equal rights game, most men still like to feel like they are in control. If you meet someone, try just explaining that you aren't interested in a serious relationship at this time. If he's of the same mind, let thing progress naturally and I'll bet you soon find someone who's willing to have casual sex, whether he realizes that's what it is or not. When you offer sex, most guys feel the situation is being taken out of their hands, therefore they are not in control. Men today are same as men have always been. For the most part they still feel they are the superior beings and a woman should "stay in her place", where ever that is.
2007-02-11 17:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by sissyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see some answeres here seems to be agitated by the fact of your casual lifestyle.To me, as long as you're protected during sex, it's fine with me.....anyway, back to your question, I do notice that the trend has began to change.
Well, maybe there's something about men's nature in taking control of matters, and matters like sex seems to be on thier regard,cause after all...male species 'seems' to be the dominant one, or so they say....
I have my fair share of experience, but I choose to feel that these guys are facinated by the fact that ; girls who doesn't want any commitment from them, differs from the conventional gals.. thus, they felt that these is interesting!...well, anyway, I think you've been lucky, cause most guys aren't like that, not the least I've known!
Good luck!
2007-02-11 17:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! i never heard a girl ask this before. um well, to tell you the truth, there are a lot of guys that just want sex out there. good luck with that.
2007-02-11 16:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy who really believes in committment. good plain old fun is ok, but maybe they are being considerate. do you really want to risk having a child? meanwhile, get some toys you perv
2007-02-11 17:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you in my life???
Probably your locations that you go. Or just bad luck.
2007-02-11 17:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont want more.
holla at me.
i don't try to make love either, i will beat that thing up real good...
2007-02-11 17:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by The Don 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should e mail me, i will talk with you.
wongfiehung2003@yahoo.com
2007-02-11 18:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋