ok so i have two guys that i like but there are little problems with both ok there is one guy named kelly i'm nown him for like 5 years he's a great guy but he doesn't live what i call close he lives in ottawa and i live in montreal so it wouldnt be that bad. ok but then there's this other guy who i really like who i have already gone out with but the problem is when i went out with him he cheated on my but he's a really good guy and love them both and dont no what to do HELP
2007-02-11 16:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK your problem with Kelly is distance. You yourself said it wouldn't be that bad to be with him despite the distance. Guy number two is great but cheats. I think that's a no brainer'. You have a long time knowledge of Kelly and your relationship is only going to be stressed by distance. To me that would make your time together that much sweeter. The other guy I can tell by your statements, is the one you really want but, He's not reliable. Your only knowledge of him is that he's a cheater. Do you really want to try to build a relationship on a foundation that is already cracked? I mean if guy number two cheated on you. Doesn't that mean he's not all that into you. You never said weather or not Kelly wanted to be with you either. If Kelly wants you, You should pick him.
2007-02-11 17:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz dont keep liking the guy who cheated on u the first time once he does it he will do it again and again but if u really want u can continur but just so u wont get hurt again plsz dont and take a risk with the guy who lives pretty close to u and try to start somehing i mean its better then nothing since u two already know each other!! Good luck
2007-02-12 00:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by SOPHIE p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance isn't good to build a solid relationship well. The other guy might have cheated on you but everyone makes mistakes. If he didn't dump you for her, then he obviously learned he loves you more than he realized and it won't happen again. Stick with the guy who treats you best and can be there when you need them.
2007-02-12 00:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so the second guy cheated on you when you went out? so why'd you still consider him? i don't think you'd be happy with him eventually. the other guy just lives far away from you. if you really love each other then distance should not be an issue
2007-02-12 00:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better stay with the guy who dosent cheat once a cheater always a cheater
2007-02-12 00:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. Second of all what is your heart telling you to do?
2007-02-12 00:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by urangel4life2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think the cheater is a good guy?
2007-02-12 00:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by gotagetaweigh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
choose the first guy.. if the other guy really love u he wont cheat on you.. face the reality girl..
2007-02-12 01:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by cute11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋