why are guys such assholes? i swear it is like all they have to do is break girls' hearts! i cant stand any of them!
2007-02-11 16:43:24 · 21 answers · asked by cheerleader for life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i agree.. hey wait a minute I'm a guy... shame on you :( don't tar all guys with the same brush girly I've been broken hearted buy many females!
2007-02-11 16:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. some guys are assholes. i can be one too.. i mean, if i wanted to i can break a girl's heart too. that's because girls invest their feelings on someone they trust. and some guys have this inate ability to let a girl trust them. i want you to know that ive broken some hearts too, but I also want you to know that i believe a person can only love one person truly in his or her heart. i do. and i think the way she made me feel this way for her is because she made me work hard for it, and honestly the more i know her now, the better we become friends, the more i love her. so i guess ask yourself, how long have you known the guy? what things have you been through? how much have you invested? what has he invested? has he worked hard for it? i believe, charm can work wonders in making a girl fall for a guy, but in the end, you have to understand a person's character, you have to see him at his worst and at his best and vice versa, and if that feeling does exist then i think it's something different for both of you. but i believe, true love starts from friendship. hope i helped.
2007-02-12 01:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by J.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I think all women say that at least once as do men say the same about women. This guy broke your heart, you'll get over it in time. You will meet someone who is right for you, and you will love men again. When you get older and you look back you might just see all those wrongs on your way to mr. right were kinda fun.
2007-02-12 01:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a story. There's this girl, cute, funny, sweet. She meets this guy who she finds irresistably attractive. But he's a jerk. He treats her like crap, cheats on her, says all sorts of horrible things to her.
For months she cries on the shoulder of her nice-guy best friend, as she continuously comes to him with the latest crap her jerk of a boyfriend has thrown on her.
She gets into a huge fight with her boyfriend, and goes and sleeps with her nice-guy best friend. Who doesn't realize her motives until the morning after because he's crazy about her. She than leaves, and goes back to be with her jerk boyfriend who gives her so much misery, while acting like the little incident with her best friend never happened.
True story.
Most Guys aren't assholes.
Girls are just attracted to the assholes.
2007-02-12 00:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its our nature.... some guys will learn later on down the road and grow-up. Some never grow-up. Life sucks and is full of ups and downs. I broke many girls hearts when I was younger, but I grew up and felt bad. Im now married and happy.
2007-02-12 00:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Achilles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the same reason i would never ever ever in my life date or just plain have sex with an extremely sexy girl. They know they're good look'n and they know they can get what ever they want. They keep whom ever it is that they're interested in until they find someone that gets their attention and there they go like a dog after a ball.
One of my friends (who is a girl) told me that im a husband type of guy and that i should wait until im like 25 to find a nice girl. Things would be easier for me then. Im what they call a nice guy.
Well, maybe its like my friend told me, you're a wife type of girl and you should just wait a little while until you can find a guy mature enough to want to settle down. just a thought. I know it helped me out alot.
2007-02-12 00:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, guys like that take girls just for granted. They actually never fell in love. As they always got what they want, they never serious in a relationship.
Tips to stay in a relationship.
Firstly, don't give everything they want. This can make them feel like a bos. Secondly, don't make them love you physically. Make them fall for you physically and emotionally. Put some effort to understand his behaviour and make him feel that he can't live without you.
If he loves you, if you let him go, he'll return back to you. This means, don't control him too much..
2007-02-12 00:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by girl_dragon2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. Ya, being a guy I can't honestly say I can completely understand you but I do know that guys can be so insensitive and be pretty mean. I'm sorry that you haven't found someone that treats you like the someone special that you really are.
Some day, you'll find someone that is sweet to you.
2007-02-12 00:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Raise The Bahr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are suckers for love. we try own women just to bone em and leave em (most of the time). most dont realize till they're older to change their ways and settle down. aside from that the reason stuff like that happens is because there's so many beautiful women out there and you cant have all of them while being with the one you got.
2007-02-12 00:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with alwaysmoo, not all guys like that. perhelps you have not meet the right person yet. if some guy have the same problem like you, they will say the same thing.
to draw the line clear, we got the good people also the bad people. it just happen you stuck with the bad one, doesnt mean all apple are rotten!
2007-02-12 00:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by anderson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋