ia m divorced and when i pickup my daighter she doesnt wanr ro come, then when she is here she says she never wants to leaxe??
2007-02-11 16:36:52 · 7 answers · asked by brianlr2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
QUITE SIMPLY A STAGE SHE'S GOING THROUGH. DID YOU LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS WHEN YOU WERE HER AGE,SOMEHOW I DOUBT IT. WE TEND TO LISTEN TO EVERYONE BUT OUR PARENTS.
2007-02-11 16:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are recently divorced I would say that she is lost to. She loves you both and doesn't want to be seen to be favouring either one and wants you to know that she loves you (by not wanting to leave). Yet also wants her mother to know she's loved by not wanting to come with you. She's torn between her loyalties for both of you. Over time she will adjust you just need to remember to not take it to heart and it will pass.
2007-02-12 00:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think she feels torn. She wants to be with both of you all the time and so she's said when she leaves one place and then happy once she's there. She doesn't want one parent to think she wants to be with the other one more.
2007-02-12 00:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats what kids do. just like they dont want to go to bed at night but in the morning they dont want to get up.
2007-02-12 00:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she needs a;lot of love that just maybe you two arent giving her, she needs the Support of both you all.good luck
2007-02-12 00:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i went through the same thing. that is all a kid thing. don't look too much into it. it's nothing.
2007-02-12 00:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your mom
2007-02-12 00:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by democrat13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋