They "graciously" accept an apology?What does this mean? Are they being sarcastic or condescending?
2007-02-11 16:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, it means they accept it with kindness and understanding. Why make a big deal out of it
2007-02-11 16:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I personally feel that the word "graciously" should only be used by those defining how OTHERS have accepted apologies (in other words, I'd never say, "I graciously accept your apology"), I would guess that the person in question was trying to accept an apology without hurting the apologee's feelings.
I've seen ungracious apologies, and they're not pretty. It usually happens when people disagree, get WAY out of line, and only one of them realizes that they were rude in some of the things they'd said. Then the apologee usually gets to hear, "Well, I should think so!", or "You're right, you WERE rude". Then, I would define that person as UNgracious.
Whereas a "gracious" acceptance of an apology would be more along the lines of, "You know, we both said things we didn't really mean, and I apologize for my behavior as well. It was out of line, and you are undeserving of such rudeness. Lets agree to disagree on the subject, and forget about what else was said."
2007-02-12 00:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by jlene18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is really in a mood to accept an apology when wronged. But it suitable amends have been made they grudgingly have to accept it. Then they have to do it with as much grace as possible so as to not lose face. That would be graciously.
Now if you were making a show of making amends in public, they have no choice but to accept it. Then they have to do it gracefully.
2007-02-12 01:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are trying to accent their positive attitude about getting the apology. It is not at all negative, although certain tones of voice could make it so.
2007-02-12 04:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you really messed up and you lucky they're accepting your apology! Well that's what i would think!!
Good Luck with what ever!
2007-02-12 00:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♣Cj♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They take your request with a lot of consideration, but have a genuine reason for not attending.
Accept it in the courteous manner it is given
2007-02-12 00:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are being complimentary to you for offering an apology.
2007-02-12 00:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by acesfourpal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible that the person is just trying to be overly polite. Sometimes when people do that they seem to be talking down to others when its not what they are trying to do. I would just shrug it off.
2007-02-12 00:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by nyoo1578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means they were waiting for that apology.
2007-02-12 00:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be both, so i wouldnt mention it.
2007-02-12 00:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋