The girl of my dream is only my classmate, friend and of a different race, what should i do??

Question

I am Vietnamese and the girl of my dream is Caucasian. She is in some of my classes and I talk to her sometimes and she loves my jokes. I think i fell in love with her because she have that bliss classic beauty that every guy wants in a wife and when i say that she is not hott but she is beautiful. I know she's too good for me and only another caucasian can date her and marry her but I want to change that. She lives five houses down from me and own a beagle dog and I brought the same dog (My dog name is Oliver) just last month I purposely walked my dog by her and she bought her dog out and they began to play like boyfriend and girlfriend dog. We are both 17 years old and love our dogs. Her ex-boyfriend cheated on her because she wanted to wait til marriage to have sex and I told him to dump her and he did because he doesn't deserve her now she is vulnerable but I don't want to take advantage of that because I respect her too much. I want to be her boyfriend, what should i do?

Answer 1

I shouldn't matter what your race or color is it's about love. I say you should ask her out. Im happy to hear that you respect her. As long as you can keep that respect and love you should go for it. Life is short and you never know what could happen or not happen if you don't ask and see. You sound like a great guy and im a caucasian girl i would date you if i wasn't in love with my husband. And he is not white. It don't matter about the color of your skin. and i think she will say yes. Good luck. and ask her out ok quick befor another guy gets her

Answer 2

This is the second time you posted this question. You NEED TO MAKE A MOVE MAN! Dont regret this later in life. Not knowing "what ifs" hunt you forever.

You should try to get close to her as a friend, then move in. Race shouldn't be an issue here I don't think. Become good friends and when your ready to tell her how you feel you should be ok. Use your dog as a good excuse to get to know her better. Tell her "hey....we should walk our dogs together sometime". Don't make it so obvious that your into her. If anything, she already knows. If she's never been to your house you should invite her over for a soda or some snacks. Don't be afraid man, go for it. You might regret it when you get older for not doing anything.

Answer 3

Man, just keep doing what you are. You are on track. She needs a friend and so do you. Let her know it is up to her how friendly. Don't mention her ex again. He is history and she doesn't need you to remind her.

Answer 4

i think that whatever race you are shouldn't matter