we will become one big family again. we are thinking calling the baby my exwife name, pam. so she feels inclusive. we havent told anyone yet about our plans or the baby. we thinking about having the wedding at the same church.
anyone have any suggestions, please throw at us.
2007-02-11 16:11:45 · 26 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
um i wouldn't name the baby after your exwife. Hello your with her sister i don't think it's a good idea. And don't do it at the same church its just wrong.
2007-02-11 16:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Where do I start?
You shouldn't've slept with your ex-sister-in-law, that's just sick and wrong. Don't make it worse by repeating your mistakes inside an already burdened family. Don't involve your ex-wife in the naming of the baby, the poor kid is going to have enough time in therapy without it. I beg to differ on your discretion, you just told the whole friggin' world about your plans for the baby. Don't get married in the same or any other church. The good Lord knows what you've done, you don't have to rub his nose in it.
You are a breathing Springer show. What I would like to throw at you would not pass for a suggestion.
2007-02-12 00:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I want to know WHY you would want to name your child after your ex-wife? That is absurd, spiteful, and plain ridiculous. I think you're going to have a hard enough time explaining to your child the relationship in itself, yet alone why they were named after your EX wife.
What does your current honey think of your bright ideas? What does THEIR FAMILY think? If you were trying to marry into MY family and thinking about doing what you are doing and have already done, I think I would be heading up an Army to have you run out of town on a rail.....
About the church. You probably won't be able to get married in a church again anyhow. Most religions will not allow people who were previously married to remarry within the faith.
But...I have to wonder how truly religious you are because you seem to be truly vindictive and cruel towards your ex wife. No matter what she's done or what happened, even if it all was her fault, a truly religious/spiritual person would forgive and move on...not rub salt in the wounds..
2007-02-12 03:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by luvmytbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't work out on Sisters but hey you two might be destined to be together. If no one knows of your plans then you two might be in for a rude awakening not a great big family reunion. And really it's just me but I'd hate to know growing up that I was named after dad's first wife who is also my aunt and potentially the mother of all my brothers/sisters--that's just a little creepy for a kid.
2007-02-12 00:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by indydst8 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should marry. You already made that bed when you slept with your sister-in-law. Now you are having a child together. Hopefully you both are happy about it, but not everyone else will be. Your actions have and will hurt many people. Then your are going to add salt in your ex's wounds by naming the child after her!! I would look into what you are getting out of hurting people so much.
2007-02-12 00:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
are you marrying her because you love her? pls dont do it just because she go pregnant, it should be something you both want and are happy doing because if the marriage isnt good/happy its going to affect te child in the long run... how is the situation between you and your ex wife? does she know about you and her sister? calling the child after her will feel like a slap in the face, she'll feel betrayed even if she isnt married to you anymore... with some women, she'd rather you be with someone else than someone close to her. even if she doesnt say, i feel its going to kill her slowly (i doubt most women let go completely)... pls think carefully, i hope you trully love her sister and that things go well.... but just be sensetive to your ex's feelings.
2007-02-12 02:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Reb Da Rebel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sure, why not. Maybe you can even remarry your ex and have two wives and really be one big dysfunctional family. Sounds like a Jerry Springer show to me.
2007-02-12 00:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is so cold!!!!!!!!! I feel for the child all ready being in a family
that is so disfuctial IF i was you i would not get married people like you are the ones we see on jerry spriger
2007-02-12 10:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by ebabybrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be serious....DO NOT name that baby after your ex-wife. What made you screw your ex-wife sister? I mean come on guy, WTF?????? Did you guys even consider who will be affected by this? Do you and your ex have kids? You both really got yourselves into a big mess........and this unborn child. I feel sorry for the poor baby already. To me it sounds like you guys already have your minds made up about getting married. Wrong answer. Your family will never be the same if you guys do it. Yall need prayer........
2007-02-12 06:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by miss_diva 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
before you do anything else...... is everything fine with your ex? having a baby with her sister and then marrying her sister in the same church, naming the baby after her, it might be too much for her to take. she was your wife before.
2007-02-12 00:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋