My girl was eating dinner tonight and the server hit on her. He gave her his number on the back of a receipt, and was trying to hit on her the whole time she and her friend was there. Her friend said she was married, and my girlfriend said she had a boyfriend and yet he still gave her his number.
Anywaym she let me see the receipt with the phone number and let me rip it up. Should I be worried, or?
2007-02-11 16:05:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, she obviosly is ataying w/ u if she let you rip up the receipt, so dont sweat it.
2007-02-11 16:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, she told you about it and even showed you the number didn't she?
She could have not told you at all!
The question you should really ask is if you trust her.
She trusts you enough to tell you about it and even show you proof.
Have faith in her ability to say "no" to other guys. This will not be this last time this happens to her and you shouldn't worry yourself sick with the outcome.
Actually, you might think of being flattered that another guy finds her attractive enough to try to steal her away from you, but she chooses to be with you instead.
Jealousy WILL drive her into an others arms.
Be a little concerned, she will be flattered, but check that monster "jealousy" at the door.
2007-02-11 16:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by welder guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,
I understand your frustration. Some guys, despite being told that they are not available, still will hit on a women. I don't know why, maybe it's for the challenge. However, you have a good girl there. She told you what happened, which is honesty, and then tore it up... which clearly means shes only interested in you. This happens to me all the time.. in fact.. sometimes my b/f will be standing right there and a guy will check me out! But he knows I'm not interested, and I always have the same response whether he's there or not.. "no thanks."
take care!
2007-02-11 16:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by cadance610 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't be worried your girl gave you the number and she could have been a bad girlfriend and called the number behind your back,but instead she gave you the number, cause she knows how much you care about her or other wise you would be history and you wouldn't even come across her mind, but that's not the case. If you're really worried talk to her about it I mean you are her boyfriend man, so talk to her dude!!! I know guys don't like talking about their feelings but, would you rather worry about talking about your feelings or losing your girl? Now that's what I thought. Talk to your girl dude!!!
2007-02-11 16:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Blue eyed girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds pretty honest to me. Not only did she show you the receipt, she let you rip it up. Plus she told you about the whole situation in the first place. I think you're pretty solid.
Would you have been that forthcoming with her if the situation was reversed?
2007-02-11 16:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by dezynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU CRAZY? What the H*** are you talking about. I would buy that woman flowers! You should have taken the receipt to the manager and had the guy fired. She didn't go there to find a man, she went to eat.
2007-02-11 16:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that she let you see it shows that you have reason to trust her. I think you should feel good that a man wants what he can't have, & you already have it. Tell your g/f that you love her, & thank her for being honest with you, & showing you the receipt.
2007-02-11 16:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually she's showing you he's a jerk. AND letting you know your lucky.
I had a AHOLE come to my door and ask if my wife was aloud to have casual sex. Do you believe that, the jerk was flat out asking if he could have sex with my wife. We was both in our mid 20's, back in the 80's.
Ya worry but be proud of her. Your lucky IF she hid it you'd have to worry. IF she starts going there without you then your in trouble.
Some guy's will cross ANY boundary to get laid. Most aren't faithful, These pond scum dwellers are looking for sex. These types usually have diseases. From women that go for it. and he spreads it.
2007-02-11 16:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Grand Eminence 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you be worried... what kind of an idiot are you??
Your girl brought the bloody slip to you! Doesn't that mean anything to you? Doesn;t that prove anything to you?
If you are going to be an A** and grind her about this, YOU will cause her to act differently next time. If you are going to be suspicious of her all the time, YOU are going to cause her to become sneaky.
So stop your bloody nonsense and rejoice because your girl obviously loved and cared for you enough to bring that slip straight to you. If she had any intention of calling this other guy - YOU WOULD NEVER HAVE KNOWN ABOUT THE SLIP idiot.
Sorry to be so harsh, but its guys like you who cause us women to because sneaky. Because no matter what we do - its just never enough for you is it? What more would you have wanted her to do with that bloody slip? Pee on it?
2007-02-11 16:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Aneska G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worried about what? She told you what happened, she gave you the receipt and you ripped it up. What is there to be worried about?
2007-02-11 16:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Suzieq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would not have tipped the chump for sure, and would have complained to his boss - since that is not good for business, is unprofessional, and a good way to get your *** kicked on the job. If she let you see the number and tear it up, relax. If she wanted to go out with the idiot she'd have kept it on the low.
2007-02-11 16:11:51 · answer #11 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋