Why is he trying to CONFUSE me!...?

Question

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. He could still have feelings for me but why won't he just ASK ME OUT again? Not ask me to “hangout” but I mean why won't he ask me to be his gf again, to really date again? I mean he's 26, he's graduating from grad school, gonna get his MBA degree & he's strating a job in June. It seems like he wants to settle down but why won't he just ask me out? What the hell is his deal?

Answer 1

Just move on, forget about him. He may be 26, but obviously not too mature.

Answer 2

maybe he is feeling guilty about the way he dumped you and wants to try and be friends. maybe he was thinking that he missed you and he wouldn't know how he really felt until he saw you again and spent a little time with you. However being as you are both in your twenties i think you should just ask him. Hey whats the deal? the worst he can say is that he doesn't want to be with you and then you haven't really lost anything but gained some peice of mind on the situation. but if he says he still wants to see you well then hey you might wanna give it a shot
good luck

Answer 3

I think he's just trying to be around in case you change your mind.

Answer 4

may be he feels you now and wants you back
that s why he is doing so .
good luck