I was travelling in a car with the guy i love and we ended up holding hands fairly intimately...he has said b4 that he wants to be good friends but i'm getting a different vibe! does he like me in 'that' way??? argh! so confused
2007-02-11 16:01:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and by the way...he's too gutless to talk to me and i've already told him how much i love him.
2007-02-11 16:08:55 · update #1
oh and by the way...he's too gutless to talk to me and i've already told him how much i love him.
2007-02-11 16:09:06 · update #2
oh and by the way...he's too gutless to talk to me and i've already told him how much i love him.
2007-02-11 16:09:07 · update #3
oh and by the way...he's too gutless to talk to me and i've already told him how much i love him.
2007-02-11 16:09:13 · update #4
oh and by the way...he's too gutless to talk to me and i've already told him how much i love him.
2007-02-11 16:09:32 · update #5
Men often don't get hints and signals very well. Be direct and simply ask. Be gentle though!
2007-02-11 16:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Yowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does mean something. and it seems it means he isn't sure about what he's feeling yet. has he had a girlfriend before? it might also mean that he doesn't know how to say those 3 words. you can try to ask him, but dont pressure him because the last thing youd want to happen is for him to be pressured to get in a relationship with you just because he doesnt want to hurt you. youd want it that he loves you freely just the same. so the best you can do now is ask him does he feel anything, and tell him you dont want him pressured. if he says im not sure then you can try to back off a bit just to give him space and let him figure it out by himself, and sometimes it would help if youre not always together so he can figure it out cleary.
2007-02-11 16:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by J.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to have a sit down chat. You need to ask him what he wants. Does he wanna be friends or does he want to be in a relationship. Before you do that you need to decide what you want as well. The most important thing is to listen to each other. I bet you are confused I would be too. Just take some time to think about what you want and then ask him. I hope I have helped you. Take care.
2007-02-11 16:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Christina A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very complicated. Maybe the guy is just to shy or nervous to straight up come out and say he loves you & wants to be with you, you know? Maybe you could start by telling him how you feel, and you want to be more than just "good friends" or start holding hands more or somthing along that lines. Well hope I gave good advice & everything works out!
2007-02-11 16:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you in "that" romantic way. But you are only giving us a small bit of your whole relationship. Usually it takes more info to really be a good judge of love. Your best bet is to ask being straight forward is always your best bet.
2007-02-11 16:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him where he's at. Tell him you're getting confused because you're getting so close and see where he thinks things are headed. You owe it to yourself to find out what is happening before you invest too much of yourself in this guy.
2007-02-11 16:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jacey S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't put too much into holding hands, if it becomes more than that then I would question his intentions with you.
2007-02-11 16:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becareful, if he just wants a friendship he shouldnt be sending out those kinda vibes to you. It will just hurt you
2007-02-11 16:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make a move and find out
2007-02-11 16:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
only time will tell, try not to act different than you have been and wait to get more clues
2007-02-11 16:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Candy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋