I'm in love with him, but he ended it with me to attempt to reconcile with his cheating ex wife. He said the relationship isn't going well, but would prefer being in a bad spot than being in no spot at all??? This sounds very weak minded to me and displays very poor self esteem. Not at all the person I fell in love with. Why do you think a person would say such a thing?
2007-02-11 15:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by nitenurse1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're a rebound pound. It's cool.
2007-02-11 15:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by ManOfLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds desperate, and a lot like he has no self-esteem at all. But....men do tend to stay with their wives. I have a friend and she was in pretty much your exact same circumstances, and I warned her about this as well. She ended up getting hurt, because he "chose" his wife she was devastated. There are so many memories and feelings there that go so far back you couldn't even reach them, and if there are children involved that alone to most men is the clincher. And it's funny too, because this guy's wife was also a cheater. I think they've chalked it up to "got ya back". Just move on you deserve so much more and I think you know that deep down. Good Luck.
2007-02-11 16:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep he has a problem. I would run the other way because he will be this way till he sees a reason to do otherwise.
My hubby and I have been married about 15 yrs. 5 years before we met he was with a woman for 20 years. She cheated on him every chance she got. He wouldn't leave he just put up with it. One day she cheated and found the man she stayed with. He moped around for five years then we got together.
25 yrs he lived in misery.
This guy your talking about is probably no different
2007-02-11 16:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered a big part of it all by yourself--so this guy has emotional issues and is probably reacting or explaining this in a silly way---get away from him and don't expect anyother answer.It is a free world and he can do whatever he wants. And why is he even talking to you about it??? He is your ex right?? Sounds pathetic to remain in contact---In love??? What is there to love about him-??- Get a grip and move on.He should be talking to his cheating ex wife---by the way--she is no longer an ex---she is back.
2007-02-11 16:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend said something similar.
It is very low self esteem on the guys part. Generally, he's not worth it.
Guys can be reallt pathetic and messed up when it comes to lvoe and relationships. Just ignore him, leave him, whatever you need to do. He can't love you, so why waste your love on him?
2007-02-11 15:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds completely gutless and afraid to face real life head on. You are better off without him.
2007-02-11 15:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jacey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a spineless jelly-fish that obviously likes to be treated badly. Try to be glad he has removed himself from your life, and don't let him back in. You deserve better.
2007-02-11 16:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by HomeGrown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he a weak man, and you should just move on
and let him go, he not worth any your time.
2007-02-11 16:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋