I've liked 2 girls so far. the first time, she moved away and i got my first experience of depression. the second time, i met this girl and i forgot the one who moved away, and then i started liking this girl. only this time, i dont know if she like me or not. i cant stop thinking about her but everytime i think she doesnt care about how i feel, i really feel like i dont wanna live anymore.
2007-02-11 15:51:49 · 11 answers · asked by johnnobody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have 2 options, quit being a sissy or kill yourself. I'd go with the later.
2007-02-11 15:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by ManOfLove 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Being sad or lonely doesn't make everyone clinically depressed. We all get sad, and we all get lonely. Some of us suffer with depression, and the cause is often a chemical imbalance.
Here are some things that should help you, whether you are depressed or sad:
-Get out in that fresh air and walk/run/jog--it really helps
-Get self-help books from the library
-Take a class, or start a hobby that is really of interest to you
-Keep a journal--write in it every day, whether you are happy or unhappy--and don't throw it away
-Be sure to get enough sleep
-Eat a healthy diet
-Call your MD for an appointment to be diagnosed
*Call the doctor as soon as possible--before you feel that you don't want to live any more. *If you feel that way right now, call 911 for an ambulance to the emergency room.
2007-02-12 00:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..okay, moving away is tough, I can understand the depression there.
But if you're depressed because you think she doesn't care about you, then why don't you just ask her out already? or just have atleast a conversation with her!
P.S: depression should be taken seriously. You could just be upset..but if you feel like you really don't want to live anymore, theres a thing called a prescription for depression medications. No need to commit suicide over a crush.
2007-02-11 23:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by webuysocks 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey, I've had a lot of those experiances. You feel depresed becaouse, you brain thinks that the girl is 2 good 4 u. Every time u c her, u think that u wil never have her. But u shouldnt feel that way, cuz if u do, u wil never get a girl. U gotta keep ur confidence up and think of your self better than her. Not that ur conceded. Just believe in urself, and u can have anything. Trust me, it works!!
2007-02-12 00:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by BIBI_d_bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear John, all relationships begin with your relationship with yourself. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself without reservation and without judgment. You are the best friend you'll ever have. Honor yourself, respect and admire yourself. If you can truly do this, then you will find that your relationship with others will be based on your relationship with yourself. You will only be attracted to people who feel comfortable with themselves...and if, for any reason, they become uninterested in you, you will be comforted in the knowledge that you are still the best friend you have. Be true to yourself, John, and you will find comfort in all relationships.
2007-02-11 23:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen don't say you dont wanna live anymore just because of 1 girl. Thats rediculous. Just forget about her, you are gonna find someone a lot better in the future. Trust me...just wait till college!! Ohhh baby...college chicks! YES! (i'm a junior in h.s. but i cannot wait till the college babes!)
2007-02-11 23:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have to find someone else.....
I become depressed because there's always something seriously wrong with the guy. Just keep looking, be yourself, and get over your past hurts as quickly as humanly possible.
Life's too short to waste time on past people.
2007-02-11 23:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey, i kno tis might be totally out of it but here it goes...why wont u jus tell her how u feel...if she liks u bac.GREAT!...but if not, dont be hard on urself...im a grl nd has the same problem a little... i lik tis guy, but its lik i feel he wud never feel the same way bac...theres always a sayin that we all kno 'theres mor fish in the sea'...lol...
hoped i helped u a little...take som time off, but never put urself down because of a grl...
2007-02-12 00:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by mz_poynter010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find someone else who at least shows that she cares about you and your feelings if you don't you'll only get hurt more
2007-02-11 23:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa there buddy! don't get depressed over a girl...really....because then no one will want to be around you...why don't you just ask this girl out...because then you'll be happy!....and you shouldn't kill yourself over a girl...really...
2007-02-11 23:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋