ok so i was d8ting this guys (we were happy) i suddenly wasnt sure about having a bf, so i broke up with him, i still loved him n he knew it, i was gonna get back 2 gether with him when my best friend too him!!! now everything is messed up, he loved me now he doesnt my best friend n me arent too well and i wish i could do something, because i cant let go...PLEASE give me sum advice!! xoxox
2007-02-11 15:50:40 · 11 answers · asked by Stella H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him
2007-02-11 15:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is ask him if the two of you could talk. When you do meet to talk ask him to please just listen to what you have to say. When you are done explaining yourself to him be sure you listen to what he has to say. Every relationship should include two people who are open and honest with each other. Hold no secrets back. Tell him how exactly you feel. Communication is the best thing in the world. I would suggest also trying to just be friends with him. That could lead to something later on. I think the way it sounds that he will need to learn to trust you again. I hope this helps. Take care.
2007-02-11 15:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Christina A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats terrible feeling, i kno just how you feel but whats ironic is that the best thing to do is nothing. You mush be thinking that i must be out of my mind but relle thats all you can do. If he feels the same way about you hell come to you n try to be friends again but if he doesnt i dunt think hes righyt for you. I had almost the same thing happen to me and it took me a relle long time to even be able to ignore him and now i still like him deep down but i kno my guys a waste of time becasue he doesnt even care, so just try it. I really hope that i helped.
2007-02-11 15:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is a ****.
Go and have lots of meaningless sex and a holiday, and then learn a foreign language, i suggest a mandarin.
Then you can wait untill they have split up, and have wasted years of their miserable lives together when you were out doing something meaningfull and having a laff at their expense...
There aint anything wrong with sour-grapes, honey.
2007-02-11 16:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry to tell you but if your ex-boyfriend loved you as you think he does or did he wouldn't have gone out with your best friend, any guy knows that when you go out with some girl and break up with them they shouldn't go out with the best friend unless they know his relationship didn't go well and his not planing on going back with the girl. So i think you shouldn't even try. or if you just want to get him back then just go out with his best friend too.
2007-02-11 16:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by nelchris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just goes to show you shouldn't mess with peoples emotions, you messed with his now you know what it feels like. Why should you have him back, he has been through the pain of the breakup and moved on. Seems like it's all about you,you,you!!!
2007-02-11 19:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. IF you still get along things can be repaired. Have you thought about why you didn't want a boyfriend? Do you have that figured out? Are you sure you can handle it now?
2007-02-11 15:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing you both, hoping for menage en trois, maybe?
2007-02-11 15:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by deregulution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is tell him how you feel...sounds to me you weren't ready to have a bf, but now you think you are, be sure it is what you want first!
2007-02-11 16:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are dumb its all your fault... you broke the poor gus heart now even if he loved you he will not get back with you because he wont want you to leave him again.
2007-02-11 15:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋