i LOVE my bf but im scared of all the dangeres things he might be into and one thing is smoking at a youg age.. should i break up or stay? will i break his heart?and is he going to interfer with my school work
p.s. im 14 hes 14
2007-02-11 15:46:49 · 9 answers · asked by GeeksAreFreaks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's smoking at 14 he's heading for a life of trouble.
Get out while your ahead
2007-02-11 15:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dangerous things, like just smoking???
If it's more than that, well, let me put it this way....
NEVER, EVER date someone who's into bad ****, okay?! No matter what age you are.
And except for the fact that smoking is a detestable habit in the first place, if that's all he does, he's still allright. Besides, with some good encouragement, you might be able to help him quit smoking?
2007-02-11 23:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love him, what I would do is just tell him how you feel about his bad habits. Like smoking & stuff. And if he quits it all, and wants to be with you. GOOD! But if he dont want to quit it all, you dont need him. You can do alot better. Guys do interfer with your school work, you just gotta keep your head on straight and everything will be fine!
2007-02-11 23:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when young kids our age are into that kind of stuff-smoking, drinking, etc... Most of the time, it basically ruins their future if they can't get out of the habits quick enough.
How about talk to him about it? See if he'll give it up because you're worried about his health and safety. If he doesn't give it up, then I'd say leave him. If he's going to bring down his future, he could probably take yours with him.
2007-02-11 23:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by webuysocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14. Get over it. You will be dating someone else in about 2 weeks.
2007-02-11 23:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by ManOfLove 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard to be in that kind of position and u guys are very young ..if your heart tells u u should break up with him and if u are scared find someone who will help u through it so u stay safe ...follow your heart ,,,,,amanda
2007-02-11 23:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's into scary things, you should get out quick! You don't want to get involved in anything dangerous or illegal. I'm sure he will get over it, just move on............ Good Luck
2007-02-11 23:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know you want him to wake up. if he loves you. or you are going to book on him.you don't need that crap. have a BIG HUG on me
2007-02-11 23:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart tells you but please, keep your pants on.
2007-02-11 23:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by P W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋