ok there is this guy that i like and we have kinda had a weird relatioship. 1 we were 'friends w/ benefits' then we went out, then he broke up w/ me because i 'wasn't mature enuff' then i got mad @him and wouldn't talk to him 4 a while. then we started being friends again now we're like crazy about each other. but he made abet w/ his friends that he could stay single for four months. now i'm moving across town thismonth, and in 4 months it'll be summer & i go to colorado to visit realtives in the summer. i rly like this guy but apparentlky he's 'not ready 4 a relationship' rite now. but i can't wait 4 him 4ever. wat should i do???
2007-02-11 15:45:27 · 9 answers · asked by Angelically Evil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't wait, get on with your living. Dont waist your time on a man that doesn't kiss the ground you walk on. Your not guaranteed tomorrow baby.
2007-02-11 15:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by sugarpunk123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes waiting makes me feel like I'm waiting forever. I find it difficult to get my heart to realize that the other person will be ready sometime (which usually happens, and happens soon). I don't know what you should do - I don't know if a reasonable answer would convince a heavy heart, but here are some thoughts: is he worth waiting for? Does he eventually want to be in a relationship with you?
If you wait, you could be giving him a chance to realize what he's missing out on.
If you do get together after waiting, you will find that it will have been worth it.
2007-02-11 15:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by db 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't think I am silly, but you know the old saying if you love something set it free and if it was meant to be it will come back. I would ask him to meet you and talk. Have a open and honest conversation with him. Explain to him how you feel. Let him tell you what he thinks. Just listen to him and in return ask him to listen to you. See what happens. I really don't think it can hurt anything. Hope this helps. Good luck to you.
2007-02-11 15:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Christina A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like lots of bad timing and immaturity all around.
2007-02-11 15:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything. if he likes you enough, he will make the move on you. he would prefer to break the bet and go out with you and if he doesnt like you enough then hes not worth it
2007-02-11 15:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Ariana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your situation is too complicated.......life's too short to be worrying about crap like this. Go and find somone else that really wants to be eith you. Dont let yourself be his option. Show him you can have fun. Enjoy your youth girl!!!
2007-02-11 15:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by badmab07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really have a choice - but I would say things aren't that bad... your doing good.
2007-02-11 15:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Channel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and find someone else!
2007-02-11 15:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bang his best friend or brother, if he is jealous and gets mad, he's yours otherwise, he doesn't care.
2007-02-11 15:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by ManOfLove 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋