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I'm only 13 years old. and i told my boyfriend everything. but he got really mad.

2007-02-11 15:21:36 · 13 answers · asked by girl.that.loves.a.boy. 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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That happened to me over the summer and my boyfriend dumped me cause he stopped trusting me. We are girls and we are only 13, we have the right to like alot of guys. I'm not saying to cheat on him cause that is wrong but if you do like someone else than you eather need to dump your boyfriend. But if you like someone but not as much as your boyfriend, your boyfriend needs to trust you enough to make the right desision. No it's not wrong

2007-02-11 15:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Hayley R 2 · 1 0

Something is obviously wrong if you like someone else other than your boyfriend. It's normal to be attracted to other people, thats gonna happen but if you really like this guy and think about him a lot etc. you probably shouldnt be with your boyfriend. Now that he knows he'll probably end up becoming paranoid about what your up to when he's not around. Sit down and have a good think about your feelings toward your boyfriend and if they're really serious. You really dont need to be so serious with relationships at your age. There's still a lot to be learnt.

2007-02-11 15:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by metal4eva_19 3 · 0 0

Shoot my kids and grandkids were playing house with dolls at your age. They were learning their adult skills the right way. You are too young to be mezmerized by boys to such an extent. Allow your self a child and save the adult boyfriend girlfriend games for adulthood.

Its more foolish than wrong liking two boys at the same time. and shows that you are to fickle to be thinking about boys.

2007-02-11 15:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0 0

then he probably doesnt trust u yet.. because everytime when i think some guy is cute or if im close to any guy or watever.. i usually tell my bf that.. and he'll say that if i ever fall in love with that guy just let him know and vise versa.. we trust each other so i think that's why.. it's not wrong.. but i know when to stop.. i know my limits.. when i feel like leaving my bf and be with someone else.. i'll think about the times we've spent together and realise that it's not worth it u know??

2007-02-11 15:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 0 0

Explain to your boyfriend that you think of this boy as your friend and you really like him(your boyfriend) better because he's bettter looking, smarter, ect,ect. Just make sure you give your boyfriend lots of compliments tell him not to worry ,stroke his ego a little, he'll feel better.

2007-02-11 15:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0 0

Honey, you're 13! You shouldn't even have a boyfriend!

2007-02-11 15:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0 0

its fine. Your 13 and everything is puppy love anyway. its not a time for you to settle anyway. Play safe and know and love yourself before getting into a relationship. take care

2007-02-11 15:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by tredaze 1 · 0 0

alot of people would get mad when your starting to like other people instead of who your dating

it is wrong, yes, but its also sometimes human nature

2007-02-11 15:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0 0

umm yes. but not quite, it's human nature to compare and contrast. but if your committed to guy, you gotta hold up your side of the wall and push the other guys away. you gotta stay truthful and trust him. he'll trust you right back. well..good luck with this one

2007-02-11 15:29:22 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0 0

in my neccesarly cmon guys check out girls all da time and probably like them aslong u dnt cheat on him im 14 big dif dats only my opinion

2007-02-11 15:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by edwinerzz 2 · 0 0

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