What's the most number of times you've been turned down in a row?

Question

Okay, I just got shot down by a girl, so I'm feeling kind of crappy right now. I just need some encouragement and to know that I'm not alone.

If you're not successful with asking people out it can become discouraging.

Right now, in the last four months, I've asked out six girls and all six have shot me down.

I don't think I'm that bad. I do very well in school, I work at a law firm and I have a bright future ahead of me, my looks are about average, etc.

I guess my only real problem is that I'm not vocal enough.


So, anyways, if you're a guy, what's the most number of times you've been turned down?

Answer 1

hundreds-living in a major city and it's called life

Answer 2

3

Answer 3

well i have been turned dowm 5 or 6 times in a row ...the first thing u need 2 do is make sure u give the girl enough time and be patient if u flirt with a girl for 2 days that isnt long enough for most girls they want 2 take time 2 make sure they rlly like u and r fun to be around hope i could help

Answer 4

Man o Man Ive been turned down I think 3 times all in the same night....Horrible experience but hey!! U cant make a shot if u dont shoot for it? I have a motto shoot for the sky if u miss u can only hit a star....lol

Answer 5

3, this was all in 6th grade, mind you

some girls just dont like successful guys, but watch out for the gold diggers

Answer 6

I never kept track of that sort of thing. Try mixed gender activities or groups and see who gravitates toward you. Take it slow and go for a walk, or a lunch, or a coke, or a movie.

Answer 7

I can't remember, its been so many times I can't remember. Just be persistent soon enought you'll find some one who is desperate or drunk enough to go out with you. It worked for me anyway.

Answer 8

I guess that's the good thing about being a sexy blonde ---- I've NEVER been turned down!

But, you could ask her out again, but not to soon, you don't want to appear desperate.