i'm so confused....if its that you want to make love why don't you just do it...why do you have to ask or check in....or if its that you want to choke or get choked...why don't you say it.....so what do men want and why are they so quiet about it?
2007-02-11 15:18:17 · 10 answers · asked by ibcrazay100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me rephrase my details......i am 20 years old my fiance is 27 we just had a baby....we used to be very sexual but not so much anymore.....how can i be whats he wants if he won't tell me?
2007-02-11 15:33:18 · update #1
I don't know about other guys but for me I really love a woman that rubs my body and rubs hers all over mine . I really enjoy a woman pleasuring herself what a turn on .
Most guys don't say what they wont because most woman think that we are sex fiends . Say the wrong word to a woman and your cut off just like that unless you have some jerk thats going to take what he wonts but wheres the fun in that.
2007-02-11 15:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are confused because you are probably a kid---shouldn't be doing stuff like this because you have no idea what it is really all about. Or that disease and unwanted kids come from inexperienced and uninformed love making. The guys are probably just as much of a kid without any class--that's why you feel the way you do. It is not a game or a thing to just pass the time. how many guys are you doing anyway?? Nice reputation.
2007-02-11 23:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, the greater the desire, the greater the silence. Until you reach a certain level of intimacy (trust), the fellow just won't open up before that. The "why are they so quiet about it" approach will not make it easier for people to open up and say the deepest desire. You must probe and ask.
But when in doubt oral sex is an obvious one....
2007-02-11 23:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by YannDumont 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on just how shallow you and he are. If you are shallow, then it is all about self pleasure.
If there is any depth, then the answer is in pleasure for the other. That pleasure can only be realized when one is able to acknowledge the pleasure that is being provided.
2007-02-11 23:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ken B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...well, if you're sleeping with someone, you should have pretty good communication with them. If you can't say anything, you probably shouldn't be sleeping with them.
Most guys want a naked chick and that is ready, willing & able. If you're not comfortable with something, don't do it. Guys aren't that picky really. They're pretty basic (no offense guys! lol). Start a conversation about sex and what you want and then ask what he wants. Again, if you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it.
2007-02-11 23:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you wanting to know? Men usually tell a woman what they want in bed. They may or may not verbally tell you, but they do it sometimes by showing what they want.
2007-02-11 23:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you want a man to just take what he wants
2007-02-11 23:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most guys dont wanna talk about their "fetishes" in fear of scaring away their girlfriend
2007-02-11 23:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they want it to be as pleasurable for you as them.
2007-02-11 23:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont get your question??
2007-02-11 23:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋