ok so theres this guy and i've liked him for about 2 years. i actually met him 2 years ago when i first moved to florida. in the beginning, he was a greatfriend. and we were great friends. but then idk what happend but he changed. i still liked/like him though. he's really cute and sweet and funny. but most of my friends think that i should get over him. i've tried to talk to him about me liking him but i never got the guts to. and i might be moving this october like 90% positive that im moving. and i know most of you are gonna say go for it but he has a girlfriend. they've only been going out for almost 3 weeks. and they dont seem very serious but idk if i should either
A.) move on
B.) tell him how i feel
or
C.) keep liking him
2007-02-11 15:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like in your situation, it would be hard to "A) move on" as crushes aren't just whims! Talk to him about the prospect that you might be moving. If he says "No, don't go!" or something to that effect, I'd say, "Well, there's one thing I've gotta tell you, though, if I do go." And go for it. If you're too shy, though, it could be humiliating. Make sure you're in the right circumstance. If you miss your opportunity, you could tell him over e-mail, if you're comfortable with that.
2007-02-11 15:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth V. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are moving why say anything? Keep the friendship and see what develops in the future.
It's really win win because:
A) you get to stay friends with someone who has been a great friend.
B) you won't get any grief because you stuff up your friendship trying to have a long distance relationship.
C) you get to move on in October without any ties to keep you looking back.
2007-02-11 23:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jacey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are very few long distance relationships that work out...
and the thing is that since he has a girlfriend doesnt matter if hes serious or not..you should not intervene in any way ...
if he does not want to be with her..let him break it off himslef without putting any words in his head.
if you like him like a freind trust me you dont want to lose him as a freind by doing the things you mentioned...
if it is meant to be then it will automatically happen..just be supportive of his decisions....
and be open to other peopl;e as well!
2007-02-11 23:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by abc123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel if he doesnt feel the same way then just move on and continue 2 be friends with him.if he feels the same way then let him break it off with this other girl and dont try to put words in his head.good luck
2007-02-11 23:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by emochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, breaking up a relationship is bad Karma. Wait until he's single.
2007-02-11 23:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've told him way before, then you would've not ask this question...So see? If you will not say what you feel then you will be exactly like who you are now.....full of doubts and questions!
2007-02-11 23:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Espanyol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him that u like him i tried that once and believe me it sounds "pushy" if u know wat i mean just try talking to him maybe flirting a little bit try to make him feel comfortable around him be there when he needs you and he'll know that u like him
watever u do don't tell him that u like him let him find that out himself
2007-02-11 23:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by behzad d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get over it.
You have your chance and you didn't step up.
2007-02-11 23:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel because without B you will never get A...
2007-02-11 23:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by K L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a dumb question.....
Choose A and be happy...
2007-02-11 23:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Thek Glorias 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋