I don't feel any need to wait until i am married, i just never felt the need to give it up drunk at some party in a spare room....
2007-02-11 15:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they're not a jackass, it shouldn't be an issue. A real man will respect that, and respect you. Never feel like you need to give it up when you don't want to. I can tell you're strong, stay that way. If the guy is a decent one, if anything he will admire you for it.
2007-02-11 15:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Renee, if you're not interested in giving it up to the masked stranger, why even discuss it? When the time comes, you will know and it will happen. Talking about it with guys only gives them a challenge and/or puts the relationship on a different basis. Sex can be the focus of a relationship if both parties are looking for that kind of relationship. But if you're looking for a relationship that is friendly and supportive and giving and perhaps even loving, the sex part will come along when it is comfortable for both of you...and you will gladly give up your virginity with no problems. And the guy will accept you as you are. Don't spend too much time worrying about this. It pretty well takes care of itself.
2007-02-11 15:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you told me
" I just never felt the need to give it up drunk at some party in a spare room...."
I guess I would think rather highly of you, and if I were then able to get into your knickers I would be very proud and happy that you chose me.
2007-02-11 15:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys think that's pretty awesome. only the crappy guys who will end up living in trailer parks like the non virgin type. being a virgin until you are married or until you find a life partner or whatever, show you have endurance, that you are strong enough to pull through in a sex-influenced society. keep up the good work because one day, it will all pay off
2007-02-11 15:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men would think its really cool.
But some would also take it as a negative, thinking that you won't put out. (Those guys aren't worth it by the way)
Other guys will feel a little intimidated, and pressured, thinking they'll have to make your first time perfect.
It all depends on the individual.
2007-02-11 15:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by deregulution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cool that you're still a virgin. However, most guys would see it as a challenge and try their best to "be the one". Don't be fooled!
2007-02-11 15:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think most guys would try to convince u to give it up to them since ur a virgin i would be like a challenge for them to see if they can make u give it up to them
2007-02-11 15:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by j.r07ht 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im guessing most wont believe you ( and no...I dont mean anything by that) Then they will all try to be the first ( personal experience ) Its sad....but most young guys are pigs like that !
2007-02-11 15:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by RedHairedTempest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they would probably like it, since alot of girls want to have sex with virgin girls
id think "cool, your not one of those that gives it up easily because your lust took over"
2007-02-11 15:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how sexually experienced they are, they might get excited, or they might appreciate your honesty.
I, for one, admire your integrity!
2007-02-11 15:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋