am i calling too much. should i wait for him to call me?

Question

there's this guy my friend was trying to hook me up with
he's good looking, smart...etc.she'd been telling him about me.
for the past couple of weeks my friend keeps bugging me to call himso she dials the number and i call him up and we start talking.
and he asks me simple questions about myself. after 15 mins i tell him i will call him back. after an hour my friend says call him hes probablywaiting on your call; and he was; he tells me he wants to see me and he'll call my house within an hour.but i dont pick up my phone til later so i callhim back he tell me when i get home call him so hell know when to come i gethome but i forget when i finally do he'd been waiting 2hours. finally i tellhim i have to reschedule we were about to start talking when someone else calls so i said ill call him back in a minute. i finally do and for the next 2 hrswe talk but mostly we are just asking each other questions. getting sleepy i tell him to call me. the next day which is today i see a number tthat looks like
his i call him up and ask him did he call me he said no. he sounded sleepy so
i said i'll call you back. am i calling to much is he waiting on my call

Answer 1

i do think you are calling to much. But hey I did the same thing. i liked this guy, we were good friends tthen I called him all the time then he stopped answering my calls. Give him space he will call you. My guy now calls me everyday. It will happen

Answer 2

Sorry to shock you--but you are being a pesty kid who is not doing what she feels is right in the first place--you already said that and you know the solution--just grow up and see him in person--tell him you apologize for the immature phone stuff---it is not a crime but it is childish--he will call when he is ready---but he is not going to call a pesty girl---and your friends should stay out of your business---tell them you will not talk to this or anyother guy on their urging. Find something else to do or find other friends. It is giggly goofy stuff that your friends are doing. tell them to grow up.

Answer 3

Good grief, put down the phone! Yes you're calling WAY too much, and I doubt very much he is waiting for you to call. By now he is probably figuring you're desperate and not many guys go for that type.

Answer 4

WOW sounds like a lot of game playing to me. Don't let your friend make the calls either you do it or you don't. If you keep playing these games he will move on and if you really like him you should just go for it.

Answer 5

First of all you need to relax. Secondly don't call him anymore wait till he calls you and if you don't pick up call him back later.Take thing slow and let him show some interest.

Answer 6

You need to wait longer then 2 hours

Answer 7

Hey you are calling him too much.
If he want to talk with you he will call.
Guys hate it when we keep on calling.
He might not be a phone person.
If its meant to be he will call.

Answer 8

Sounds like you love playing mind games?

Answer 9

haha sounds like a hell of a lot of calling to me.

Answer 10

that would drive me nuts why all the calling and having to call back if you want to talk to him make them time and talk. Also dont call him unless you have time to talk.