what do i do if i love someone and she doesnt want to be with me because we know too much about each other and it would be too much like a marriage and i cant get over how much im obsessed with her
2007-02-11 14:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by supermegabubble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Common sense, I think you know already. If she doesn't want to be with you, move on, no matter how it might hurt. You don't want to seem pathetic, do you? She just ain't into you. Sorry.
2007-02-11 14:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is confusing because first of all any relationship will eventually be like a marriage after a while. so is this really excuse or do you really know what you want. You have to sit her down and have a heart to heart talk and really understand each other. If she gives you a second chance, keep it fun and friendly and loving. Show her that you really care and want to be with her. Life is too short to live with regret. Just talk to her and be happy and enjoy life. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 23:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's lots of different ways to go with that one.....trust me, been there, done that, I was on the opposite end and situation a little different, but the story outline, exact.
Ok, I am so not be flippy or smart here....but I have something you could do that might help, maybe....I cried thru the middle and end...anyway, ever see the movie "my best friends wedding?"...its been around for quite awhile I think, but, I know this might sound stupid....but hey, you've nothing worse to try, right?....anywho, just watch the movie, what all Julia Roberts does, and then how things turn out, it shed a little light for me, maybe it would you.....just a thought......
2007-02-11 23:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by harleylover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN get over her and you will trust me. You know too much about each other? That's her excuse? She just isn't into you. That's the cold,hard,truth. It happens. You can punish yourself by wishing it would work out or get over it and move on. It's better to move on.
2007-02-11 23:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pushrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing some time ago and when we became more than friends it ended in disaster. Find someone else.
2007-02-11 22:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Brad H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeeew, this is sticky. if she doesn't love you it sounds like you will only get your heart broken. i say you need to move on... let her go...
here's why... if you are busy obsessed with what will never be, you'll be to busy to notice the one that is right for you.
and, i know you are way too smart to waste your time. you want someone that will love you back.
now, move on.... go on... now... go.
2007-02-11 22:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either accept the fact that all she wants to be is friends or part ways and move on.
2007-02-11 22:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a way to publically humiliate her.
And the best thing it doesn't have to be done immediately.
Wait a few months or so, then she won't be expecting it.
2007-02-11 22:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give them time and space
2007-02-11 22:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋