we have been seeing each other for about a month. will this scare him away?
2007-02-11 14:51:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the rush?
Love is a word that a lot of people throw around without really thinking about what it means. After all, it may mean one thing to you (feelings-based, non-committal, etc.), and something completely different to him (holistic, commitment-oriented, desiring something more long-term). Think it all you want, but it's way too early to be putting that kind of pressure on him.
2007-02-11 14:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what u feel he probably wants to tell the same thing 2
2007-02-12 20:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little early. Try to wait for him to do it. Hold out for another 6 weeks. Don't do what cutie says. If you don't feel casual about it don't pretend to feel casual. And guys DO say it when they feel it, once they let go of their fear.
2007-02-11 22:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Especially if he isn't ready for kids/marriage. When a girl tells a guy "I love you" its almost like merry me or else.
2007-02-11 22:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...wait it out for awhile because if it does scare him away u will be left feeling exsposed...most guys will tell u if they love u when they truely do
2007-02-11 22:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if he feels the same way back i think u should tell him cuz if u feel that now and u don't tell him u might end up regretting it in the future.and isn't life about risks?take this risk and tell him u never kno he might feel the same way back
2007-02-11 22:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by gillian k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the kind of statement that can either brake it or make it...your call.
2007-02-11 23:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by YannDumont 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it more casually, guys arnt tht good w/ iloveyou's so ya just stick w/ the casual.
2007-02-11 22:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might be alittle early for that so yes it might scare him.
2007-02-11 22:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bit early, wait a while
2007-02-11 22:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋