i broke up with my bf of 2 years about 2 weeks ago..because he never really treated me right and we stayed together so long because we had such an awesome connection and chemistry. well i finally decided i deserved better and was done with always being let down etc. I met this great guy last night, he's everything my ex's not...i can really see a future with this guy, but i know I'm still not over my ex. I don't want to lose this great guy...but i don't know if I'm being fair to him...is it too soon to jump into a new relationship?
2007-02-11 14:46:14 · 8 answers · asked by bob123456789 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's too soon, as long as you keep open communication with this new guy. Maybe you'll have to be friends for awhile, getting to know each other better, and just make sure to take everything super slow. But you can't let someone great slip away just because you're getting over someone not so great- that just doesn't seem fair! :) Again, just communicate, communicate, communicate- and don't expect this guy to make up for your old guys shortcomings, let this relationship be all new. Good luck!
2007-02-11 14:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know when you are ready for a relationship. There is no set amount of time you have to wait to date again. Just date the new guy, don't get serious with him right away.
2007-02-11 22:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is you still have fealings over your ex. you should just take some time to think about it and think about what you really want to do with ether one of those guys
2007-02-11 22:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by mustangplayer2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it slow and in time let your heart heal and start to love again.
2007-02-11 22:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.
Just tell him you want to take things slow.
Good luck
2007-02-11 22:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK, just be careful and take it slow.
2007-02-11 22:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by lady_blu_iz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes too soon
2007-02-11 22:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...jump into it ...
2007-02-11 22:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋