I would think that it shows that he is needy and clingy. We all know you like the guys you can't win. So doesn't your attraction for guys who pursue decrease as opposed to increase for guys that are kinda indifferent toward you?
2007-02-11 14:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I like the guy YES! Otherwise not and I find it annoying.
2007-02-11 14:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would have to be a man you WANTED to persue you or no it would be a turn off. But when a man will go the extra mile to get you, of course it is attractive. If a man was indifferent towards me, I'd take it as he isn't interested and move on, no time for games. If you want someone, this is for a man or woman, go for it, don't stop till they know it. It is very flattering.
2007-02-11 22:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i find it attractive when a man persues me. It means he really likes me and it also makes me feel good about myself that he is that interested. Guys that are indifferent towards me are a complete turn off. Its not a strategy at all in my books, but then life is very crazy like that. Do what makes you feel comfortable, there is nothing wrong with persuing someone you really care about, and it can be a lot of fun. Take care Heather
2007-02-11 22:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pursuing is fine as long as he doesn't come off as needy/clingy. The pursuit makes a woman feel very desirable.
2007-02-11 22:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! if he is trying to pursue me it makes me feel he finds me special and important. He has seen all the good things I want to highlight about myself and I don't know if you have notice if a guy likes a girl and if he keep trying eventually he wins her but if a girl likes a guy the more she tries the more he dislikes her
2007-02-11 22:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Holy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each their own but in my opinion it boost my confidence when a good looking guy pursues me. It is like they are wooing you and it is very romantic to say the least.
Bottom line: When a man pursues you he is serious, when he shows up for a date with flowers he is charming, When he takes the time to talk to you and respect you and wants to get to know you he is sincere and that is endearing.
2007-02-11 22:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a weird way, yes. It's fun to see how far a guy will go to win you over. It's even more fun when you're not attracted to him in the slightest and get to turn him down flat.
2007-02-11 22:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be flattering that a man is taking time out to persue a girl.To know that a man is trying him best & going out of his way to get a girl,its nothing abouut needy.Everyone needs somebody to love.
2007-02-11 22:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I like to be persued. A man who does no persuing is boring.
2007-02-11 22:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it feels great to be pursued as long as he doesn't smother me.
2007-02-11 22:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋